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53 Brooklyn, NY Woman


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 46–58
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
5′ 2″ (1.57m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
Graduated from masters program
Has a kid
English, Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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Thanks for venturing past the pics to the tedious essay portion of my profile. I know you're tired of reading these things so I keep hacking off words. Eventually, I'll sound exactly like everyone else.

I know how it feels to get burnt out from sending messages that don't get a response. So, if you're in my age range and you write me a nice message ( I get a lot of yucky ones), I promise to respond.

The monarch notes me-- Remembering my English teacher's admonition, “show don't tell”, it's hard not to wince as I write this- I'm a lover of ideas, always considering the big picture, a sharp critical thinker, curious-- if I don't understand something, I'll keep asking a million ?? 'til it makes sense to me. I'm engaging, animated, super affectionate xoxo, gold medal in empathy, sexually open-minded, self-aware, candid, an excellent listener, and bold - not afraid to say the emperor's naked, stop a dogfight or straddle you on your lap and kiss you at a bar. I laugh easily so I'll probably think you're funny. Left of liberal. Well-traveled, but I won't bore you w a list of places I've visited.

[I'm really 53, and photos are recent , so no surprises.]
What I’m doing with my life
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Professional Lorax. Climbing around on stuff, keeping fit, relaxing w dog on belly listening to music, getting worse at word games. Listening to those great Sat. NPR shows. Meditating when I need to. Nice times w friends. Lovers to take the edge off the loneliness.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
dancing. i'll give you a private show.
The first things people usually notice about me
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tiny size- 98 lbs. wild hair
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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If you had any idea how much a literate man can turn me on... I love books- good writing, good storytelling, love talking about books, reading favorite passages out loud (to you?). Always reading a back issue of The New Yorker- will never catch up.

Music list- too daunting. Food's yummy. Taste, aside, I think about what I put in my mouth, organic-wise, karma-wise- I like to know that my chicken led a happy, self-actualized chicken life. Sexy movie scenes? Dance scene in 35 Shots of Rum. Him seducing her in The English Patient; him seducing her in Atonement, and this:
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
i know i shouldn't write anything negative about men. i hate it when guys complain about women in their profiles. i think lots of men are wonderful, respectful, reasonable.
ok, now i will say what i've been thinking about today: 2 omniscient men recently wrote to me. the first told me my joyful little comments about squirting were wrong because women don't squirt. the second told me my headless pics were photoshopped and not me.
You should message me if
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I like men who think I'm charming not immature when I start climbing on stuff in the park or practice hula hooping in my living room- I was great as a teen and I can't figure out why I can't do it anymore.

You're honest about your age, or if you've lied about it, you'll tell me how old you really are. You're not wondering if your pics are too old and misleading.

i'm not interested in casual sex.