First off, I am married (to this guy: VTtwistedKilt). We're polyamorous/ethically non-monogamous/whatever. You'll meet him at some point if we hit it off, he's pretty cool. I also have a pretty serious boyfriend right now. I'm also into kink. It's a significant part of who I am and what I like. ***Please note, I have little to no interest in getting involved with people who don't know about poly. It usually ends badly.*** <----Seriously how do I make this shit bold? Just because I am poly and kinky that doesn't mean I am looking to just hook up/do the nsa thing. Please and thank you. I am a very sexual person but I value interpersonal relationships and that's what I am primarily here for. I am a hopeless romantic. Not gonna lie I'm pretty discouraged with what I've encountered so far. I do have multiple relationships, read: I have a husband and a boyfriend currently. If that bothers you, move along.
If you ask me what I value most in a relationship here is what I'm likely to say: honesty, accessibility, and respect.
ISFJ if you're interested in those kinds of things.