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36 Jersey City, NJ Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 26-38
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Online now!
5' 10" (1.78m)
Body Type
Agnosticism but it’s not important
Doesn’t have kids
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
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Moved to the city area about 4 years ago from a rural part of NJ. Currently working for a financial media company doing writing, marketing and graphic design.

Looking for an actual relationship, ideally, with that someone that makes it all worth while. If I don't find them on be it. Still enjoy meeting new people and going out.

If you want to know more, just ask.
What I’m doing with my life
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The usual stuff. Working during the day, pursuing extracurricular activities in the evenings, which include my website and novel writing.
I’m really good at
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Graphic design and writing. I also know how to ski and snowboard, play the guitar, and ride a motorcycle. But I don't know if I would say I'm REALLY good at any of those things. Although I'm not dead, either from crashing or from my neighbors, so I guess I'm pretty good at them.
The first things people usually notice about me
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No idea, but I'd be interested to know.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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My favorite authors are Nabokov, Ellis, Chekhov, Kafka, Philip k. Dick, Vonnegut, Kundera, Hunter Thompson, Bukowski, Salinger.

My favorite directors are David Lynch, Wes Anderson, Stanley Kubrick, Tim Burton, Todd Solondz, Michel Gondry, P.T. Anderson, Adrian Lyne, Coen Brothers.

TV shows: game of thrones, breaking bad (better call Saul), walking dead, black mirror, Rick and Morty, Archer, Louie, twin peaks, twilight zone, Seinfeld, Parker Lewis can't lose.

Music: Mostly rock and indie rock. Some of my favorites are arcade fire, Elliot smith, cursive, Joy formidable, Conor oberst, Tim kasher, Owen pallet, the national, modest mouse, the smiths, belle and Sebastian, dean Martin, Tom waits, senses fail, radiohead, smashing pumpkins, foo fighters,...that sort of stuff.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
The outdoors
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
With all the ease of online dating, and the literally hundreds of potential people you never would have had the opportunity to meet otherwise, why does it seem like it's so much harder to make a connection with someone than it was before?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Either out and about in the city or passed out from a hard week. One or the other.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'll admit anything in person. Not online.
You should message me if
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You're fun, interesting, smart, nice, and genuine. If you like art, books, music and/or film, that would be great. Or if you're just a cool person and want to message me. Must love dogs and space. Not necessarily dogs in space. RIP Laika.