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HardestWalk

40 Toronto, Ontario, CA Man

Man

I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 28–45
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Dec 15
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Vegan
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Capricorn
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Art / Music / Writing
Income
Relationship Status
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Likes dogs and has cats
Speaks
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
My day job is graphic design/publishing and I love it. You might have seen something I've designed. Or maybe not. I have no idea what you look at.

I tend to have a pretty busy schedule, with work, friends, and that new movie that I absolutely have to see, but there's always room to expand my social circle and plenty of cafés about.

My user name is from a song by The Jesus and Mary Chain. I was listening to it when you get to the name choosing bit at sign up.

I also write brief messages, mostly. Blame text messaging.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I've been reading John Hughes screenplays and finding other people's keys.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I'm pretty decent at keeping calm under pressure (even at gunpoint), typing with a cat on my wrists, and I make a mean cocktails.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
It's probably that I talk to people who have yet to have their morning coffee and I refuse to learn that this is a bad idea. If I sleep in, I probably haven't shaved.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I've taken an axe to this section. It was far too long.

Books: I read about 50 books a year, and one will be whatever book wins the Edgar Allen Poe award.

Movies: I've seen Some Kind of Wonderful, The Princess Bride, MK&AO's It Takes Two, and Citizen Kane at least 5 times each. I like seeing movies with explosions in the theatre rather than at home. All the John Hughes films.

TV: Bron|Broen, The Bridge, The Killing, Parenthood, The Good Wife, and those cable shows no one can shut up about.

Music: I realized recently that, while I used to be quite up on music, I am no longer. Any recommendations? Recently exploring Hospitality and Wye Oak's newest.

Artists/Designers: Peter Saville, Margaret Killgallen (I have a tattoo of one of her drawings), Chris Ware, Vaughn Oliver, Robert Mcginnis, and Rodrigo Corral.

Food: Have you ever been to Foodswings in NYC? Pretty much the entire menu there.

Comedians: Tig Notaro, Mike Birbiglia, Maria Bamford, Eugene Mirman, Jen Kirkman, Amy Schumer, John Mulaney, and Mitch Hedberg.

Podcasts: James Bonding, Savage Love, Judge John Hodgman.

Fonts: Electra, Fairfield and Metro (W.A. Driggins); Gill Kayo; Bureau Grotesque; and the non-digitized Tempo Light and Sill TV Square Gothic.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I like to put quite silly things in this section, but I'll attempt to be more serious:
• silly things
• people (and cats) to love and be loved by
• good books
• music to dance to
• and New York City
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Typography, Photoshop and composition, and why my desk is a perpetual mess.

I also spend a fair bit of time figuring out ways to repair the plot holes of existing movies and novels. In my head, I have three novels, two coffee table books, an historical non-fiction profile of a lost NYC landmark, and a YA non-fiction book about animals. Very little of this has made it to the page.

Also, snicker doodle French toast. I think about that a lot.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Fridays tend to be a quiet night in with Netflix and a cocktail. I've been working all week, so a relaxing evening in is perfect. However, I can be coaxed out to Big Sound or Electro-Swing when they're on.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm actually 6' tall, I think, but I'd rather round down than maintain perfect posture. I don't care how tall or short you are.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
you can suggest an amazing book;
you know some kick-ass running music;
you nerd out about something;
you know who Dan Savage is (or better still, Sex Nerd Sandra); or
you're the darling of the discotheque crowd.

But let's just do tea (or coffee) first.

For the record, I am in an open relationship with a really wonderful partner (whose profile I can direct you to). I really the social aspect of dating and I enjoy meeting/dating new people. I'm looking for someone who wants to catch a movie, take a dances class, or just grab a cup of tea and complain about their day and, if there's chemistry, see where it goes.