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28 New Haven, CT Man


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  • Ages 21-39
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My details

Last online
Today – 11:08am
6' 5" (1.96m)
Body Type
Atheism and laughing about it
Space camp
English, French, Italian
My self-summary
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Musical, inquisitive, and motivated. And yes, really that tall.
What I’m doing with my life
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In CT for the year between grad school stints. Gigging around, enjoying the real world while I can, perfecting my dark & stormy recipe.
I’m really good at
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Listening, sight-reading, remembering innumerable useless facts, procrastinating, being desperately overcommitted, losing respectability as a pianist.
The first things people usually notice about me
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"How tall are you? Do you play basketball?"
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Middlesex, A Midsummer Night's Dream (Hamlet Shmamlet, he's whiny - and I'll take Harold Bloom to the mat on that one), His Dark Materials, Lolita, and anything by Robert Frost (I feel like I grew up in one of his poems). Also, Calvin and Hobbes.

I listen to a lot of classical music and a little bit of everything else, too, with a strong preference for artists who demonstrate a high degree of musical skill within their genres. I also love discovering new music, so feel free to make suggestions! Current obsessions include Stephen Layton, Cécile McLorin Salvant, and Jason Isbell.

Not really a big movie buff, so my opinions on them aren't so extreme. That said, I love a good documentary and I'm working my way through OITNB (TV is definitely the more exciting long-format medium these days).

I like food. I'll try anything. Sometimes only once. Maybe a second time if you put chocolate ganache on it.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Books, wingtips, complex punctuation, Bärenreiter scores, great conversations over bottles of wine, sour gummies.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Human nature, art's place in society, what I want for dinner, free will, YouTube videos, extended vocal techniques, behavioral economics, how to get that cute guy at the coffee shop's number, epidemiology's intersection with American scientific illiteracy, how I should really learn German.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Probably performing. Or sleeping. Or cavorting with the gang.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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A bear sat on me once while I was camping upstate. No, not that kind of bear.
You should message me if
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You're intrigued. Or you think I'll be intrigued. Or you're tall and cute. Whatever, it's the internet - the stakes aren't that high, just say hello.