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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 25–45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Sep 13
Seeing Someone
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
6' 1" (1.85m)
Body Type
Space camp
Doesn’t want kids
English (Fluently), Spanish (Fluently), French (Fluently)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Here goes,

If I were to sum up my three priorities in life, I'd say freedom, love, and truth/beauty.

Freedom to me means we allow ourselves to make mistakes and learn from them. We become able to express ourselves. Live and let live.

Love is there. It's never too late.

Truth/beauty are in the eye of the beholder and are part of the measurable and immeasurable world. To me these are often attainable in appreciating the little things.

I am a cook. Food is the common bond, so it is good to take part in something that allows me to provide for people.

Here's some nerdy myth based pseudoscience takes on me:
I'm chaotic lawful neutral (d&d). I'm fire on the mountain. (Ei ching). My 3 tarot cards are the world, the sun, and the knight of wands. I'm a gemini taurus with aries rising, mars in leo and mercury in taurus. Very little water (which makes for my reservedness) but i have a good intuition. Everything changes, I'm just trying to keep up and get some perspective on the way. My Mayan glyph:


I seal the output of survival
with the crystal tone of cooperation
universalizing fearlessness

my favorite colour is green.

I hope readers can at least get a laugh out of this I don't know why I haven't taken it off yet.

What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Working nights at a local restaurant/bar. I love my job! Every day is a new day. I take it as it comes. I am thankful for what I have.

Life mission? hmm.. eventually I want to start a taco stand or something small scale. Meet the right person and go for adventures. I fluctuate between hedonist and bohemian... dunno if less is more or more is more.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
drawing, painting, cooking, driving, conversation, playing music, video games, philosophy, anything hands on or artistic.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
You'd have to let me know, everyone sees different things.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: Hitchhiker's guide, Neuromancer, Neverending story (the book's way better) Dante's Inferno, Kafka, honestly I haven't been reading much lately. Throw a book at me and I'll probably read it after a few pages. I'm more into film and music.

Movies: Sci-Fi stuff, Anime, UHF, Pulp Fiction, Total Recall, Reservoir Dogs, All Kubrick, all Coen, all Wachowski, Scorsese, Stone, Lucas/Spielberg, Cameron, Verhoeven, Lynch, Hitchcock, Burton. Love cartoons and documentary alike.

TV: Ren & Stimpy, Ugly Americans, Family Guy, American Dad, South Park, Futurama, Simpsons, Star Trek, Star Wars, Stargate, the Dune flims and mini-series, Batman TAS, Animaniacs, Game of Thrones, Boardwalk Empire, Archer, The Big Bang Theory, SNL, Dr. Who, Red Dwarf.

Sepultura, Iron Maiden, White Zombie, Heaven and Hell, Beastie Boyz, Neil Young, Kids in the Hall, Wierd Al, Ani Difranco, Led Zeppelin, Pink Floyd, Black Sabbath, Buckethead, Warbringer, Obituary, Annihilator, Ween, Pearl Jam, Nirvana, Paul Simon, Dead Can Dance, Ali Farka, Ry Cooder, Ravi Shankar, Shakti, Cat Stevens, Bob Dylan, Janis Joplin, Jim Croce, Allman Brothers, Canned Heat, Jimi Hendrix, Santana, Hawkwind, Annie Lennox, David Bowie, RHCP, RHPS, The Beatles, Beck, NOT Nickelback NOT Jimmy Buffet, and not a huge Megadeth fan though I acknowledge Dave's contribution to Metallica. Pretty much anything inspired, and creatively remixed.

My favorite foods are Soup, Sushi, Latino, Mediterranean, Western, Eastern, chowders, curries, salads, rice, lentils, noodles, Gallo Pinto, Pizza, burgers, hotdogs, pasta blah blah... Fav flavours... unami (combo of all 5 flavours) sour, salty, spicy, pungent and sweet.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Family, friends, visual art, music, sound, smell, touch, taste.
oh yeah and smokes I guess I could do without doesn't seem too pleasing tho. I like booze and weed, but I have no need for either unless they're medicinal (too much mental stress), but deep breathing and exercise works too. I could switch one for the other (drugs for lifestyle) but so far I manage to stay pretty even keel.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The past, present and future, the ever shifting truth. Heaven and Earth. Music. The whole freakin universe and the cosmic joke. Why my skin never seems to fit like I want it to. Am I able to dance? Next week's menu. My friends and their core. Where I'm headed.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Working till 1, then time with my night owl friends. Relaxing at home, wandering this beautiful town and singing to meself... Cranking music, movies, or vids through my headphones. Listening to the unithought. Gearing up for Saturday night.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm too generous with my money. I don't take great care of plants unless they speak to me and/or i can eat them. I once was a vegetarian but I cured it with a T-Bone. Now recognizing the need for greens at 37. I'm a big fan of alone time, but I also crave the company of others. I like cheesy films. I am a terrible fighter, but I'm good at breaking up fights. I may take a self-defence course one of these days. I have no tattoos, just a coupla big scars from a car crash when I was 17. Otherwise I'm in good shape, apart from a bout of carpal tunnel which should soon go away (I hope).
You should message me if
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you like meeting new people and you're a giving person. We don't have to see eye to eye on everything, as long as we can respect one another let's see where it goes.