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musconetcong

60 Hampton, NJ Man

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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 38–60
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Dec 14
Orientation
Gay
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Sign
Taurus, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Education
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Unknown
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Speaks
English (Fluently), French (Okay)

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My self-summary
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Musconetcong is the beautiful river that runs near my house. It's now a National Historic and Scenic RIver as well.

Mini-Bio: I'm a native New Yorker, born and raised in Brooklyn (Bushwick), briefly interred in Queens (Rockaway) and then on to Stuyvesant High School in Manhattan. I was trained as a musician, with a BM in piano (U of New Mexico) and an MM in music history (U of Wisconsin). However, most of my working life has been in the field of MIS as a programmer/analyst, system analyst. In 2006, I embarked on my third career as a certified music teacher. I teach (entertain?) students with multiple mental disorders at a small private school. I also teach private piano and violin lessons at a nearby music school.

Personality: If you asked those who know me best, they might describe me as: kind, personable, funny, warm, friendly, good-natured, loyal, honest, forgiving, non-conforming, idealistic, sometimes unrealistic, somewhat naive, ethical, empathetic and creative.

Values: I'm a passionate humanist with some old-fashioned values. Somehow, in the chaos that was my growing up (dragging up, my father would have said), a great deal of acceptance of differences, decency, equality and justice filtered through to me and my siblings.

Hobbies: I'm an avid gardener. I own a house with a property that had been neglected for decades. It's quite a challenge! I enjoy traveling on a budget, particularly to beautiful, off-the-beaten- path, exotic destinations. The trip is reaching a place before the New York Times gets there! I love nature and the outdoors in general. Watching movies and TV, eating and daydreaming are three of my favorite pastimes. When I can concentrate, I play piano or read. I collect fine crafts from around the world, especially valuing the pieces I purchased directly from the artist (or his/her gallery).

You: Cute/handsome/sexy/hot/goofy/nerdy. Some combination of these or maybe even some trait that hasn't come to mind yet. Please have a fine sense of humor (it can be unique) and be warm, loyal, honest, ethical, kind, capable of intimacy (physical, emotional, intellectual) and an interesting conversationalist. I guess I'm looking for genuine goodness in a person, who is also special and unique. Please don't fit into any scene because I'll just be confused. Just be yourself. Bring your flaws to keep mine company.

Thanks for reading my profile, I know it's somewhat long!
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I just started a new job as the music teacher for a small private school that serves kids with multiple disabilities. The kids are great! This is a VERY exhausting job, but I've been doing it for over 5 years now!!! I have NO voice at the end of a school day.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Making people laugh and wasting too much time on the internet researching both obscure and common topics or shopping for things I could never afford.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My smile (it's the dimples) or that I look like some celebrity - usually one I don't know.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books
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In absolutely no order: 100 Years of Solitude (Garcia-Marquez), The Tin Drum (Gunther Grass), Lolita (Nabokov), The Painted Bird (Jerzy Kosinski), The Brothers Karamazov (Dostoevski), The Plumed Serpent and Lady Chatterley's Lover (D.H. Lawrence), Huckleberry Finn (Mark Twain), Me Look Pretty (Sedaris) ... this is getting too long!

Movies
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Blue Velvet (David Lynch), Fargo (Coen brothers), Best of Show, Mexican Bus Ride (Bunuel), A Touch of Evil (Orson Welles), Pink Flamingos (John Waters), Blazing Saddles (Mel Brooks), Some Like it Hot (Billy Wilder), The Shining (Stanley Kubrick), Clerks and Clerks 2 (Kevin Smith), Rosemary's Baby (Polanski)...

Music
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Once again, in absolutely no order: Solo and chamber music of Bach, Haydn, Mozart, Beethoven, Schubert, Chopin, Schuman, Saint-Saen, Brahms, Debussy, Ravel, Satie, Mompou, Bartok, Szymanowski, Stravinsky, Schoenberg, Berg..., virtually all Motown hits, Aretha, Tina, Janis Joplin, Wilson Pickett, Billie Holiday, Ella, Joni Mitchell, the Beatles, classic disco and hip-hop greats.

TV
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All time favorites: Arrested Development, Six Feet Under, the British version of Shameless and Twin Peaks. Right now: Orange is the New Black, American Horror Story and (I'm embarrassed to say) The Walking Dead. Who DOESN'T love zombies???

This is getting too long or I'd make my list of the visual arts
and food.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
coffee
nature
free time
my 'garden' (now that I have one)
my piano
cocktails
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What I need to do (especially if I don't want to do it), the ugliness of disparity, hypocrisy and mendacity in our country and the world (I really DO think about this a lot), breakfast, lunch, dinner and snacks...
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
thoroughly burnt out!!! I just got a Roku box, so I
can catch up on years of missed TV and movies.
Right now, it's Tracy Ullman's State of the Union.
Before that, it was the series Strangers with Candy
(Amy Sedaris and Steven Colbert).
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Sometimes I color my hair. Maybe I'll be more revealing tomorrow.
You should message me if
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You're interested in getting to know me and letting me get to know you and you're happy to e-mail, talk and meet. Sorry, but I'm SO TIRED of endless e-mails from guys who don't offer their name, never give a phone number or even privately send a clear picture of themselves... I am willing to put lots of thought and time into this process because I would ultimately like to meet THAT special person, but I really don't want to waste any more time in cyber-sex-space.