I've kept my inactive profile, below, as a record for my self.
No expectations. No half-truths. No apologies.
I feel as though a site like this one is perfect for me right now. Lots of time-killing goodies. Lots of neat and pretty people around. But, generally, a pretty casual environment of just communicating and taking things as they come. So, a microcosm for where I'm at in the world of relationships.
As I watch my friends settling down or getting married and sometimes having kids, I know that I'm not at that stage. Too many things to do. Too much of a need to be able to transplant my life if that's what the universe offers me. So, someone with any long-term possibility would have to be equally busy and driven and whatnot... but I'm happy just to get to know people and interact and take it one day and one moment at a time.
(Throwback Three-Adjective Headline: I am artsy, heartsy, and smartsy.)