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TheAquarium

30 Rego Park, NY Woman

Woman

I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 26–36
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 12:49pm
Orientation
Bisexual
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
A little extra
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Atheism
Sign
Capricorn
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Banking / Finance
Income
Status
Single
Type
Strictly monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Has dogs and has cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), French (Okay)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Rewriting my profile a bit...

I'm a firm believer that being a successful adult means mastering the art of being responsibly irresponsible. It's all about making reasonable choices to balance out the passion-driven decisions that make life worth living.

For me, 2015 quickly introduced me to my 30s. My friends and family found this to be a bigger deal than I did, but I celebrated with a Barcade outing with a random assortment of said friends and family to "celebrate." I had a blast playing X-men and TMNT and firetrucks while enjoying a few stouts/porters with some of my favorite people. My mom even baked cookies and brownies (I'm not a fan of cake - unless Napoleons count, because they're amazing - but I digress) which were mostly gifted to a fellow birthday celebrator who further extended the birthday spirit by feeding the baked goods to friends and strangers alike, communion style. It was quite an interesting night, and somehow I was home, mostly sober, and asleep just after midnight. Getting "old" ain't so bad ;)

In a nutshell, I don't take myself too seriously, have no problem laughing at myself, enjoy the little things in life, and embrace my inner child as much as possible.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Working in finance.
Going to concerts and exploring the city when I'm not working.

I feel like it's worth noting that I never saw myself working a corporate job. Since I do, though, I tend to use my time off to express myself more freely than I can at work. I have a septum ring that is only visible when I'm not in the office, and I temporarily dyed my hair purple for my most recent vacation (it'll be back to "normal" by the time I go back to work). Basically, I work in a corporate setting, but do my best to not let it define me.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Being reasonable, problem solving, making last minute plans, dropping things, laughing at myself, tripping over my own two feet, finding the silver lining, sleeping in uncomfortable places, seeing both sides of a situation, and having the random item you need on hand (seriously, it's a strange and inexplicable gift)
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
It used to be my eyes or smile, from what I've been told, but recently it seems to be my septum ring.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books:
Still Alice, Lais of Marie de France, Perks of Being a Wallflower, Pride and Prejudice

Movies:
Donnie Darko, Empire Records, Fear and Loathing in Las Vegas, Clerks 2, Mulholland Drive, Closer, Singles, Can't Hardly Wait, Once, Sinister, Guardians of the Galaxy, We Need to Talk About Kevin, He Was a Quiet Man, The Battery

TV: How I Met Your Mother, It's Always Sunny, The L Word, Jekyll, Extras, An Idiot Abroad, New Girl, Fact or Faked, Suits

Music:
Soundgarden, Cursive, Hozier, Little May, Ben Howard, Radiohead, Muse, Soilwork, Imogen Heap, Alice in Chains, Bat For Lashes, Glen Hansard, Chris Cornell, Karnivool, MuteMath, Milo Greene, A Perfect Circle, Daughter, The Dear Hunter, Mikky Ekko, Seer, The Mars Volta, Bear's Den, Half Moon Run and The Civil Wars...
I'm constantly looking for new artists to listen to - if you have any suggestions, send them my way!

Food:
It's easier to list the things I won't eat:
Capers, mustard, horseradish/wasabi and raw garlic (the latter two due to food sensitivities more so than taste)
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Music (preferably live)
Heavy blankets
Thunderstorms
Orion (constellation)
Sunsets
New experiences
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The future
Differences in our experiences as fellow humans
Music
Art
When I'll have smile lines
Why my roommate's dog and my cat can't just get along
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Usually, Friday nights are spent hanging out with friends at a concert or a bar with a decent (dark) beer list.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I still don't know what I want to be when I grow up, but I'm pretty happy with my life anyway.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You want to.

I tend to have a thing for guys with long hair, beards, tattoos and/or piercings. That said, most of the people I've dated in the past didn't have any of these, so it's certainly not a requirement :)

Most importantly, I'm looking for someone with an easy, genuine smile... a spreads-to-the-eyes kind of smile. Bonus points if it has left it's mark with smile lines.

Also, if you don't listen to music and are not interested in going to concerts we probably won't work out.

I *will not* respond if you send me a message solely based on my physical appearance, especially if it's followed by "wanna chat?" Don't say I didn't warn you! ;)