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58 F San Rafael, CA

I’m looking for

  • Men who like women
  • Ages 52–62
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 8:51pm
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Other, and somewhat serious about it
Virgo, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Art / Music / Writing
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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Slender, unique, full of life...I love making new friends and am never bored! I love cooking, art festivals, music, dancing, hiking, the ocean and the Sierras (I know....who doesn't?!). I’ve been self-employed most of my adult life, and presently work in my music publishing and graphic arts business. Also job-coaching at a non-profit with the learning disabled, and it feels great to do this kind of work and it gets me away from my computer and out of my own brain. Teach piano lessons a couple days a week, too. Yep...never a dull day.

I’ve worked as a dancer, musician, and graphic artist much of my life. I love my work and find it challenging and fulfilling my need for expression. I'm very easy to entertain!

Having a small family and no children makes my relationships with friends most valuable. I'm a wonderful, loyal friend, and am blessed with many many friends, thankfully! Spending time at our family cabin in the Sierras during the summer is a particular joy. I love travel, and lived in several other countries. I take good care of people I care about, my body, will go the extra mile, and am trustworthy, conscious, responsible, spiritual, ethical and mindful. I hope you're funny and can make me laugh, and understand my twisted sense of humor, because I love to laugh! Really serious types need not apply, although I myself spend quite a bit of time in reflection and believe meditation helps one cope with the stresses. That doesn't mean I do it every day, however...

I am interested in meeting someone that is fit and respects their body, and takes care of it, as I do. I trust you are (or were, if you're retired), passionate about your profession, have a strong sense of self, can find peace in the midst of chaos, and like to kiss....
What I’m doing with my life
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Presently trying to make my music book publishing business successful and enjoying life back in the Bay Area after a two year stint in LA-la-land. While I loved the weather, I prefer most everything else "up north."
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Dancing, graphics & design, playing or teaching piano, cooking, editing, schmoozing and networking, and I give great phone.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I have a nice smile and sparkly eyes, and fairly unruly hair, even on my good days!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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G.Garcia Marquez, Vonnegut, Emerson, John Iving, Isabel Allende, J.D. Salinger, Kingsolver, SciFi, Non-Fiction (spiritual, self-help, historical, political, etc.).

MOST music. Exceptions: rap, mariachi, and redneck country. Still believe the best music was written before 1990.

Allergic to nuts and eggplant. Eat fairly healthy, but not too strict about anything except not eating 4-legged animals.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Love, my health, my friends & family, an ocean or pine trees near to where I live, electricity and indoor plumbing
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
the meaning of life....yeah, I know.....but I DO!
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
out with a friend, working, reading, seeing a movie. Mostly working and hoping some friend calls to distract me and get me out of the house.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'll admit almost anything, once I know you.
You should message me if
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You are really available and are open to adventure. Oh, but please don't email me if you live OUT of the Bay Area----please please please!