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25 M Chapel Hill, NC

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
6′ 2″ (1.88m)
Body Type
Other, and very serious about it
Cancer, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Politics / Government
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
"At your are love..."

That's me. And I want to find someone that's the same.

I'm a well-educated fellow living in Liberal Town seeking someone wonderful on here. Which, admittedly, is like finding a needle in a haystack.

A very large haystack.

Equivalent to...another very large haystack.

Generally, I'm not shy, but approaching women is akin to climbing Mt. McKinley.

I have a degree in Environmental Studies, and fought some years ago to prevent a coal plant from being in a low-income community.

My goal is to become the first African American Governor of either Carolina. And the only presidential aspirations I have are for Central African Republic.

I usually am walking around with an "I <3 reproductive rights" bag.

If there's someone out there who likes to be held, look my way.
What I’m doing with my life

Working to have Chapel Hill observe Sexual Assault Awareness Month, starting in 2015.


Being a Companion at the Orange County Rape Crisis Center.

Saving the world from cats.
Cat burglars.
Burglar cats.

Petting sheep.

Championship sitting.

On Tuesdays I end lives with ping pong.
I’m really good at
Running for office and not winning. (SC House, '10 and '12; CH Council '13)
Games of board and card varieties.
Composing...kind of.
Ping pong.
Cuddling: The Sequel.
The first things people usually notice about me
is my skin color.

Or my underbust.

My height or my voice.

The unexpected (good) things I do in the world.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
TV: Rachel Maddow, Revolution, Law & Order: SVU, Parenthood, Whose Line Is It Anyway?, The Simpsons, LOST, The Big Bang Theory, The Daily Show, some History Channel shows (how is How The States Got Their Shapes *not* awesome?), Fresh Prince, Boy Meets World, Family Matters

Books: Pale Blue Dot, The Failures of Integration, The City and The Pillar, To Kill A Mockingbird, Huck Finn, The Giver

Movies: Rush Hour trilogy, K-PAX, Mighty Ducks trilogy, Fast Five, Independence Day, Men In Black, Mrs. Doubtfire, Scott Pilgrim vs. The World, The Gods Must Be Crazy, The Final Cut, Garden State

I'm into the music - like Ke$ha, "hard." (Note: I don't actually like Ke$ha.) I'm much more of an old man: I love Fleetwood Mac (my fave,) The Bee Gees (don't hate,) Michael Jackson, Yes, Prince, Marvin Gaye, Seal, The Band, Duran Duran, The Police, Genesis/Phil Collins, Peter Gabriel, Ivy, and numerous others. I also am partial to folk tunes, bluegrass, and some fifties and sixties country. (Thanks, Time Life!) If you've not heard Jim Reeves's "He'll Have To Go," something's missing in your life.
The six things I could never do without
My mom.
Yogurt raisins.
The New England Patriots.

Special Bonus one: the Oxford comma.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
where in the world is Carmen Sandiego?

But when I'm not searching the globe, I think about oppressions, intersectionality, politics, and music.


How to create a fez of guard armadillos, 80 deep, to protect me and my roommates by getting in the way of would-be burglars.
On a typical Friday night I am
not doing a lot anymore. I'll have to change that.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
is how the swamp of partiarchal douchebaggery on here diminishes my chances.

"I wash myself with a rag on a stick."
(Bonus points if you know the reference.)

When I was young, I wanted to grow up to be a bus driver, and I still do. Mass transit for the win!

I'm a quarter bisexual on my mom's side.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 18–45
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
it was you, in the state of existential crisis, with the Nickelback CD. (This is what happens when you and your friends make a modern Clue.)

you like to hold hands and want a boyfriend who wakes you from bad dreams.

you want to stop the archaic idea that the man should make the first move.

you want to play Scrabble or chess on Facebook. Or in person.

you know the words to "Don't You Want Me."

you'd accompany me to a contradance.

you are totally down for making out in the rain.