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55 Portland, OR Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 34–65
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 7:34am
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Not at all
Cancer, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Art / Music / Writing
Mostly non-monogamous
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Communication, connection and commitment are important to me. I am in a committed relationship with a wonderful woman. We each enjoy making new friends. We have been poly from the beginning.

One of the things that I love about the space/time that I'm currently occupying is that I'm able to live in the present. I accept the past but don't dwell there. I look forward to the future but don't fret about it.

I am atypical. I am fun.
I am not fearful. I am not for everybody...
Sapiosexual, switch, bendy… much more.

I'm open.
Open to new ideas.
Open to innovative thought
Open to answering any questions.
Open to a myriad of experiences.

I've had at least a half-a-myriad of experiences.

I like to dance. I'm not a great dancer. Yet, I have an awesome sense of rhythm.

If a picture paints a thousand words then 15+ photos must be worth at least one self-summary.
What I’m doing with my life
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I teach and play music. I'm involved in the continuing effort of a new music school in Portland (year 3 ). One of the most exciting projects I've ever been involved in. It's going great!

I'm working with various professionals. I'm not paying them in currency. I love to work on the barter system when possible. I work and play "outside the box".

Community outreach and involvement are important in my life. Music education and social change (sex-positive issues in particular) are my passions.
I’m really good at
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Teaching, listening, learning, watching, participating, performing and creating.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Maybe the huge unicorn horn coming out of my forehead?
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Fav Books: Illusions (Richard Bach), Another Roadside Attraction (Tom Robbins), Just Kids (Patti Smith), This is your Brain on Music (Daniel J. Levitin), Contact (Carl Sagan), The Ethical Slut (Easton and Hardy).

Fav Movies: A Room with a View, Oh Brother Where Art Thou, Generations, Dr. Caligari, Blade Runner, L.A. Story, The Meaning of Life.

Fav Food: Yes! Pdx restaurants are a never ending source of exploration and palate teasing fun.

Fav Shows:
TVish stuff: Dr. Who, Sherlock, Sens8, Soap, Trek stuff.
Theater: Twelfth Night, JCS, Inviting Desire.

Fav Music: Jazz, Blues, Alt rock, Alt. country, funky-stuff-ta-boogie-2, classical, acoustic treats, thoughtful music, fun music, innovative music, classic music, et.
Examples: Coltrane, Robben Ford, Wilco, Funkadelic, Giuliani, Indigo Girls, Stevie Wonder, Bon Iver, Tool, James Low, Nancy King, Zappa, AC/DC, B.B., Miles, Ella, Frank, Duke…

Fav clubs: Cafe Artichoke, Jimmy Mak's, White Eagle, Wilf's.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Music, sex and cookies
Cookies, music and sex
There must be a lotta better things in this world but I ain't run across none yet.
If I could have 3 wishes
I know just what I'd do
Get a new stereo, buy up Nabisco and make sweet love to you!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
harmony, rhythm, dynamics, melody.

I believe in love, genuine and true.

My desire for deep and meaningful relationships.

How do you tuna fish?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I know the secret to the universe.
You should message me if
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You enjoy growing.
You understand ethical non-monogamy.
You want to understand ethical non-monogamy.
You enjoy music.