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53 M Portland, OR

My Details

Last Online
Apr 15
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Not at all
Graduated from university
Art / Music / Writing
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Has dogs and likes cats

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My self-summary
Atypical human being.

I'm creative with a good sense of humor that can lean toward sarcasm on occasion-
I'm a perfect specimen of humanity who always has a positive attitude and never makes mistakes. (See?)

I'm a musician. I play and teach music for a living. I get to do what I love for a living.

I love to bring special people into my life. Lately I've been having a wonderful time meeting people like me (and people different from me). I believe in the dichotomy of living but not in binary social norms. Everything is not as it seems.
Monogamy or poly, it depends on the chemistry of the people involved doesn't it? I tend to lean toward the latter. Ideally I'd like to meet that special someone who's also as adventurous as I am. I have fun at places like Club Sesso. I enjoy being open and honest. Will you foster that? Open-minded people, welcome! Bigots, jealous types and the narrow minded need not apply. Please pass me by, don't make me cry, don't make me blue.
Communication is key. I want to build a relationship with openness and transparency and see where that takes us. Summation: lying is stupid.

I'm a dog lover. I love and miss my beautiful four legged girl. She loved all people, even republicans.

I don't drink or do drugs. I don't care if you do, if you are casual about it. I work in bars and wineries quite often and go out for drinks with friends. I'll just order mine "virgin" (and wait for the jokes to fly).

I love the arts. Theatre, graphic works, performance art, visual art, multimedia and (duh) music. Do you like live music?

I think that meeting people online is “organic” and natural. If “the universe” is supposed to bring us together then I’d imagine that the universe can navigate a website. Don’t you think?

Women tell me that I look exactly like my profile pics.

I look at the glass this way, not half-full, not half-empty but as an overused metaphor. Life is a slug trail. Always moving, always creating more. The past is shiny if you look back at it but it does eventually fade. The next slime trail might be the best one ever!
What I’m doing with my life
I'm involved in the continuing effort of a new music school in Portland (year 2). One of the most exciting projects I've ever been party to. It's going great! We already broke last year's enrollment record. There are challenges though, whew.
I’m really good at
Teaching, listening, watching, participating, performing and creating.
The first things people usually notice about me
I have a huge unicorn horn coming out of my forehead.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Fav Books: Illusions (Richard Bach), Another Roadside Attraction (Tom Robbins), Just Kids (Patti Smith), This is your Brain on Music (Daniel J. Levitin), Contact (Carl Sagan). Currently on the nightstand: The Ethical Slut (Easton and Hardy).
Fav Movies: A Room with a View, Oh Brother Where Art Thou, Generations, Dr. Caligari, Blade Runner, L.A. Story, The Meaning of Life.
Fav Food: Yes! Pdx restaurants are a never ending source of exploration and palate teasing fun.
Fav Music: Jazz, Blues, Alt rock, Alt. country, funkystuff ta boogie 2, classical, acoustic treats, thoughtful music, fun music, innovative music, classic music, even the dreaded (uh-oh, yer getttin' old) "adult contemporary"... Examples: Coltrane, Robben Ford, Wilco, Funkadelic, Giuliani, Indigo Girls, John Mayer, Bon Iver, Moby, Tool, Zappa, AC/DC, Miles, Ella, Frank, Duke...
Fav clubs: Cafe Artichoke, Jimmy Mak's, Tommy O's, White Eagle, Club Sesso.
The six things I could never do without
Music, Sex and cookies.
Cookies, music and sex.
There must be a lotta better things in this world
but I ain't run across none yet.

If I could have 3 wishes.
I know just what I'd do.
Get a new stereo, buy up Nabisco and make sweet love to you.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
harmony, rhythm, dynamics, melody.

Why women almost never say hello first? To those brave and self-confident women who have said hello, I'm impressed.

I believe in love; kind, genuine, true, committed, can't live without you kind of love.

Why are there people on OKC that are ashamed to be here? Seems strange to me.

Raise your hand if you've seen more than one profile where the guy says, "I have a great sense of humor" and there's no sign of it anywhere in the profile.

What's the best way to tune a fish?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I know the secret to the universe.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 30–65
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
You should message me if
You are a perfect specimen of humanity who always has a positive attitude and never makes mistakes.