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musicman81

28 / M / straight / Single

Boise, Idaho

The Skinny

Last Online
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Ethnicity
White
Height
6' 3" (1.90m).
Body Type
Skinny
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating
Smokes
No
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism and laughing about it
Sign
Scorpio
Education
Graduated from space camp
Job
Artistic / Musical / Writer
Income
Less than $20,000
Kids
Has children
Pets
—
Languages
English

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My Self-Summary

Music is my biggest passion. I play guitar, bass, drums, keys, turntables, basically whatever I can get my hands on. I use my PC to record/produce demos.

I have a couple kiddos from my marriage. They are 9 and 5 and are amazing. I get them every weekend, but I can still get out for a worthy cause. I don't expect/want my mate to be anything other than like a family friend to them. I love being a dad, it's what I'm best at actually. It's about respect, teaching, and being thoughtful. The word thoughtful is key.

I've been divorced around 4 years. I used that time for a whole lot of personal growth and change. I'm looking for somebody who will inspire me, support me, encourage me, respect me and rub my head when I have a migraine. You'll get that back plus some for good measure.

What I’m doing with my life

I am working on a few things musically at the moment. Basically self schooling myself at the moment in all things music. Zen Junkies prepping to do some damage.

http://www.myspace.com/andirockmusic for solo stuff and new song ideas

http://www.myspace.com/boisemusic for the band 'zen junkies' we're starting up.

http://www.myspace.com/walksteadyproductions
My Hip Hop style stuff with real instruments.

I don't want fortune and fame, I want zen...and a job in music. My goal is to be able to support myself and my kids doing what I love, all while inspiring people and spreading positivity, honesty, and worthwhile life lessons. If I can meet this goal I will consider myself the biggest rock star in the cosmos.

I’m really good at

being really good. being a dad. music.

The first things people usually notice about me

that I rock. and that I'm skinny.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

I like feelgood positive and/or introspective stuff, things that teach good lessons and take a lighthearted / pseudo smartass approach to life.

Mainly I love things that are great.

The six things I could never do without

love, friends, family, self, creativity, and cheesy love songs.

I spend a lot of time thinking about

how to succeed, how to grow as a man, how to inspire my kids and others.

On a typical Friday night I am

hanging out with my kids, making music, or sometimes out.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nPg73_n0a-E

You should message me if

you don't mind that I'm poor. This doesn't mean I need you to take care of me or pay for dates, and I sure as hell don't want to use your vehicle. It just means that I'm a delusional who is reaching for the stars.

and if you look sexy in tube socks.

also if you know a good, single drummer.

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