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56 M Oxford, CT

My Details

Last Online
Today – 7:39pm
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Scorpio, but it doesn’t matter
Working on university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has a kid
Likes cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Hey there! Although I'm tired of the online dating stuff, I'm back at it for a little bit.(Hopefully) Window shopping for love... or at least a date with potential. I think it is sort of backwards, but once in a while, someone feels really comfortable to be around. I've changed my old profile where, if read the totally wrong way, came across angry to someone. :) < see that smiley symbol? It means I am not serious about whatever I wrote, I'm joking! Lighten up! If you are still reading, you are brilliant. Simply stated, I am going to make some beautiful woman happier than she ever dreamed she could be. I know I will meet her soon! :)
What I’m doing with my life
I'm doing 100 things just like you are. LIFE for me is an adventure. I don't over-plan and never no what tomorrow will bring. I just book vacations on the fly. Just days away lots of times. Vacations I can relax since nothing needs fixing there. I teach now (year 3), own a store, have an 12 year old son and I'm plugging every last hole in what was a sinking vessel when I got divorced over 4 years ago. I've planted my feet now. My PRIORITY is my child. With that responsibility both financially and emotionally, being responsible with money is essential. If you love shopping and running up charge cards you never pay off, power off your computer. I'm not into you at all. I'm an active guy, so please consider racing me on the beach or riding a bicycle or at least walk briskly. I am really hoping to find someone that has children close to the age of mine and am not interested in moms with kids over 25 at all!
I’m really good at
If you have no interest in sex at all, I have no interest in you. I'm not crazy, I just want compatibility. I want to get to know you. I prefer straight talk. I got the silent treatment for too long, it's time to enjoy the remainder of our lives, not sit and wait for it to just happen "someday". I know how to fix everything that requires being handy. I teach a trade for a living!!
The first things people usually notice about me
patience. I have tons of it. really. Watch! I will hold this number 7 in front of you....

Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I don't read as much as I should. I write more, lyrics and things. And go screw if you have a problem with me liking romantic movies. They're not just chick flicks.
When Harry met Sally, Wedding Singer, Somewhere in Time, Sleepless in Seattle, You've got mail, Seinfeld, non-rap music, singer/song writer stuff.
The six things I could never do without
My son, love, music, air conditioning, sports & sharing laughter. Holy crap.... I just starved food!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Making everything work better. My sons future. And what woman is going to change my life forever.
On a typical Friday night I am
Working in my store until 9.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
We can talk about our privates if we meet. haha. I feel terrible when women want to get to know me, but I have no attraction to them in return. It's sad. That being said, it happens to me too. I just hope I don't make the same mistakes I made before. Have to keep my eyes open to make it count next time I fall in love.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 41–54
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
I made sense to you, you weigh less than 160 lbs and you aren't a druggy, alcoholic, COVERED in tattoos or a spendaholic.