Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Tom, Male, 1,98 m, Big (somewhat muscled) man, HSP, Creative &
Social person, Cat lover, Thinker, Poly-amorous, BDSM minded,
Dominant, Primal, Free Spirit, Musician, Composer, Studio Owner,
Label Boss, Long-haired idiot, Caring person, a good hugger, a
person that swims 3 times a week.
A gentleman with a crazy yet organized mind with a penchant for
idiocy and darkness.
Or maybe I'm just one the Looney Tunes that never made it to TV
airing because I was too vulgar and weird.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I spend my days working in my own studio, providing
audio/video/webdesign services for clients. I consider myself a
creative technician that uses technology to make the things my
clients have in their minds.
I love being my own boss! Sure, the pay isn't as good as a regular
(steady) job, but I am doing what I love and personally I know
that's better for my personal state of being.
Besides my work, I'm writing music for my own projects and my band.
Composing and creating things are very important to me, because it
helps me channel the ever-going flow of thoughts in my head.
I balance my time between my work, doing creative things, swimming,
meeting awesome people and spending time with my wonderful
girlfriend. I am poly as I said earlier, so I am happily loving her
and also open to whoever else wants a place in my heart. :)
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Pfooey, I'm a perfectionist so I don't really think this way. I'll
just take some outside opinions on this one. :P
People have told me I'm good at:
- Being caring and kind
- Being punctual
- The Dutch & English Language
- Making decisions and standing for them
- Taking control (Being the leader)
- Writing creatively. (music and words.)
- Making an ass out of myself.
- Hugs and intimacy
The first things people usually notice about me
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My hair I guess? I mostly get one of these replies from
1: OMG your hair is pretty. (Meaning they like long-haired
2: OMG I wish I had your hair!!! (Meaning they hate long-haired
guys and they don't think it's fair that I have these genes and
they don't. :P)
And apparently I have a clear set of eyes but that's something that
you can decide for yourself if you see me in real life.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I'm not just a musician myself but I am a big music-fan as well
still. My CD collection takes away a big part of my wall, so I
guess that says something. My primary genre has always been Metal
and especially the melodic and progressive kind. But there's a lot
more that resonates with my gray mass. I'll give you guys a quick
list of my personal favourite artists here:
Symphony X, Dream Theater, Pain Of Salvation, Tool, Toto, Frank
Zappa, Porcupine Tree, Napalm Death, BLØF, Origin, Gustav Mahler,
Sergej Rachmaninov, Devin Townsend, Coheed And Cambria, Deftones,
X-Japan, Rammstein, Nine Inch Nails, Genesis...
I guess my music taste is pretty bipolar by anyone's standards, but
whatever. I like what I like! :D
Video/Movie-wise I am kind of weird. I like documentaries,
psychological thrillers, Animated Movies/Series, Anime/Manga,
British Comedy, Fantasy/Sci-fi and more of that stuff.
I'm not much of a bookreader to be honest due to some concentration
issues when reading books (hurray for being easily distracted), but
I do read a lot of articles and I like learning new stuff that
Food-wise I am easy because I like a lot of different foods!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
- Social contact (Either with animals or humans)
- My brain (It does a lot for ya, you know!)
- My lungs (A man's gotta breathe right?!)
- My Studio and Working Environment. (I'm now blessed with the
ability to record and immortalize my inspiration when it
- Intimacy (No, not just sex, but intimacy in terms of feeling safe
- Humor/Comedy (goes without saying really...)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How people interact with each other and how it is possible that
certain things are the way they are humanely speaking. And then
there's stuff like politics, religion, world problems etc that also
bounce around in my gray mass.
And then there's the conversations I have with the cats which for
some reason always end in PURR... weird...
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Either hanging out with people I love to be around (duh) or working
on creative stuff.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I think I have been pretty private already in the first section, so
you might wanna check into that.
If there's anything else you want to know, you can just fire away.
You should message me if
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You like the way I wrote this or like the things I said, because
basically that's what I would say if I saw you in real life. The
difference would obviously be that there's the added luxury of
sound then, but that's a minor detail.
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