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  • Ages 23-38
  • Located anywhere
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My details

Last online
Nov 25
6' 0" (1.83m)
Body Type
Judaism and laughing about it
Might want kids
English (Fluently), Chinese (Fluently), Japanese (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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Zhao Chuan said, "I am a small small small small bird," and I think that just about sums it up. Urban alienation; tiny dishes of food; an escalator to the top of Victoria Peak; kitchen ghosts; sounds of blackness; chakra liberation; fashion that is courageous and in bad taste; mechanized bug husks; international English; Sakhalin; princes Kaoru and Niou; sleek, icy Scandinavian modernism; Siberian opera; low infant mortality rates, high suicide rates. Don't free Tibet. iPod. Colonialism.

My favorite flower is the tulip.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Single Gay secretary of the Invisible, seeks same for ends to which words will not suffice.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Acting like it was on purpose
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My concerned look
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
1- J.M. Coetzee, M.F.K. Fisher, Ogden Nash, Colette, Kobo Abe, Paul West, Lu Xun, Herman Melville

2- Silence of the Lambs; Werner Herzog, esp. Grizzly Man; Kenneth Branagh's Much Ado About Nothing

3- Stravinsky, Penguin Cafe Orchestra, Sigur Ros, Vashti Bunyan, Bjork, Enya, Gorky's Zygotic Mynci, Paul Simon, Jens Lekman, Brahms, Cocteau Twins, Mozart, Mahler, Morton Feldman, Carlo Gesualdo, Cornelius, Elvis, Javanese gamelan music, minimal German techno, and J.S. Bach

4- Raw oysters with freezing cold gin. All sorts of seafood, beets, potent cheese, fried anything. Spicy.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1- neck rubs
2- equanimity
3- something green & growing
4- fantasy
5- dental floss
6- cashmere socks
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
"...the classic story of Henry, a backwoods villager watching a theatrical performance, who leaps to the stage to save the heroine from the clutches of the villain and a horrible death. Of course Henry is mistaken if he thinks he can save the actress. She is not in danger; there is nothing to save her from. But the character she portrays is in danger and does need saving. Can Henry help her, despite the fact that he doesn’t live in her world?"
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Recently, playing go, writing fugues, girl-talking, nurturing a robust mental life. Please take me out dancing.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm a little bit "Buddhist" and a little bit "bad boy"
You should message me if
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You prefer Garfield to Calvin and Hobbes.