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27 Vancouver, British Columbia, CA Man


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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 21-45
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Oct 4
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Mostly monogamous
5' 7" (1.70m)
Body Type
Average build
My self-summary
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IG: kashibutterfield
nice mix of tender and tough, appreciate the highs and lows, direct and indecisive, the first movie I saw in theaters was the little mermaid
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
pretty handwriting, remembering the inconsequential, moving across the continent, projecting all the good of humanity on animals, synthesis / taking things apart
The first things people usually notice about me
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loud prints, shaved head
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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brian eno, the xx, YMO, blue daisy, drake, bjork, caracal, illum sphere, oneohtrix point never, boredoms, john talabot, the smiths, blood orange, gang gang dance, destiny's child, antwon, ryan hemsworth, sparklehorse, fennesz, spice girls, autechre, jai paul

etc etc etc britney to sonic youth, basically

I read the new yorker pretty regularly. Some writers I've liked are james baldwin, tao lin, Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie, David Wojnarowicz, TS Eliot, JG Ballard.

Following the previous lifestyle signifiers, I like most HBO shows. I like violent sexy french films (stranger at the lake, irreversible) and also fun trash (robocop, tyler perry).

Not really a foodie since I'm broke, so I like to cook healthy at home or eat trash outside. Like a polar bear on the outskirts of town, desperate for sustenance in an inhospitable environment.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
a distant goal, spooning, friction, time, mayonnaise, feels
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
getting out, psychology, wrangling dissonance, politics, muffins
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
decompressing with friends or otherwise resting in some form
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I use big words to fake it when I have no idea what I'm saying
You should message me if
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you're in the neighborhood and wanna rub brains