I am Tall, Thin, and White.
My Self-Summary
I really have to say that I dislike self summaries because I'm
still finding my self. But if I had to define myself I'd say that
I'm currently going to school at USF for my History degree (you can
quiz me about
Roman history and I'll probably
know something about it or talk your ear off about it) and have a
part time job selling flooring at Lowe's. I am more of the shy
nerdy type, the kind of guy who didn't talk to anyone in high
school but who's learning how to before he dies. I am in a
committed open relationship with
RosieRazy (message her!), so I am not
precluded from seeking casual/short term relationships and I am
definitly open to
polyamoury. I am an
atheist, but I'm not to serious
about it. I can tag along with people of any faith or sexual
preferance (or gender preferance I might add) so long as they don't
take issue with me.
(more to come as I think of it)
What I’m doing with my life
I am figuring life out at the moment. I am currently living in an
apartment in south Tampa and going to USF part time. I am really
into history and I am pursuing that in my academic career.
(more to come as I think of it)
I’m really good at
Everyone says I can put together a really good
Hookah session, which is kind of
like the middle east's version of a bong except no weed. I am
getting better a cooking.
Really suck at: right now, driving a fork lift, building up courage
to message people,
(more to come as I think of it)
The first things people usually notice about me
They usually don't. But if they do, its because I'm tall. About
6'4"
Usually goes something like this:
Person-Wow! your tall! Do you play basketball?
me- no
people need to stop asking me this
(more to come as I think of it)
My favorite books, movies, music, and food
Books- LOTOR. Aubrey/Maturin Series by Patrick O'Brien. Shogun,
Tai-Pan, and Gai-Jin by James Clavel. Slaughter House 5 by Kurt
Vonnegut. Nineteen Eighty-Four by George Orwell. The whole Dune
series (need to read these again)
Food-Sushi (best stuff is a either Matoi in Tampa or Blue Samurai
in Ybor) Thai, French-Vietmamese, Spanish-latin (Black beans and
rice!) and pretty much anything else that is defined as edible
(although I have been know to gnaw on the table cloth).
TV/Movies- Adult Swim (ATHF, Metalocalypse, Family Guy, Venture
Brothers, Robot Chicken), Deadliest Catch (watching this right
now), Dirty Jobs, 24, Fringe. I'm a sucker for anything startrek
(except TOS, a little too on the corny side for me)
Music- I 'll listen to damn near anything. Anything except Jonas
Brothers.....somebody kill them before they destroy any more good
music please!
(More to come as I think of it)
The six things I could never do without
Food, shelter, oxygen, water, gravity and an ozone layer
Apart from those prerequisites: my family (although I could deal
without their bitching and drama), sex (I'm pretty sure I'd have to
be committed if I went over a month without it), books (currently
reading the Aubrey/Maturin series by Patrick O'Brian), something to
challenge me either physically or mentally (right now my job and
school work),
(More to come as I think of it)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Right now, paying my bills.
Been thinking about joining the military as of late, but nothing
real concrete. Not really out of any sentiments of patriotism, but
more along the lines of the physical challange (get my ass in
shape) and the kick ass credentials it would give me.
Other than that, it's usually something dirty
(More to come as I think of it)
On a typical Friday night I am
My Friday nights are usually on Thursday nights because that is
when they play the good music at the Castle in Ybor (would not mind
going on any other day of the week though).
(can't afford to go out much at the moment. been two months since I
went to the castle)
(More to come as I think of it)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit here
I'm a stutterer. I have a very bad habit of trying to force the
words out just a little too fast and they trip over one another.
Its usually a good sign that I'm in to you.
I am an atheist and would not choose to be anything else
I drive a cherry red mini-van
You should message me if
Your are looking for a friend with benefits, a casual relationship
or just a friend. If you like a guy that stutters when he is
nervous, or if you like Star Trek (forgot to mention I was a closet
trekky. I grew up watching the movies and I still love em)
If you want to talk, you can catch my Windows Messenger Live
account at mattv@tampabay.rr.com and my email is
mvalladar@gmail.com
(More to come as I think of it)