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23 / M / Straight / Single
- Last Online
- Mar 8
- 6′ 1″ (1.86m)
- Body Type
- Atheism, and very serious about it
- Sagittarius, but it doesn’t matter
- Working on university
- Less than $20,000
- Relationship Type
- Doesn’t have kids
- Likes dogs
- English (Fluently), Dutch (Fluently), German (Okay), Italian (Poorly), Japanese (Poorly)
One question I get very often when I am telling somebody about my study is “so you want to become a teacher?” Education is a thing which I am very passionate about, but despite this I do not plan on becoming a teacher. Educational Science revolves more about the question “how do people learn” than about “how do I become a good teacher”. Ironically, Educational Science is one of the few studies with which you cannot become a teacher, purely because the study does not fit in one of the classical educational domains, like mathematics or history do for example.
What we do learn is how to design, develop and implement educational material, like textbooks, curricula or even educational games. This is also the reason I chose this study, because designing solutions for given problems is one thing like to do a lot. This was also the reason for me to study Computer Science, but along the way I discovered that I was more interested in the impact a software design had on a human user than in the software design itself, which was then the reason for me to switch studies. I also found a discrepancy between my broad interests in all kinds of different topics and Computer Science being very restricted to only the domain of computers and mathematics.
However, I do not regret my first decision for choosing Computer Science, because I can still apply what I learned in the setting of Instructional Technology. This master involves the domain of using different kinds of technology - from books to computers - for instruction and to embed this in curricula.
One thing you might already have noticed is that I like my study. I am very drawn to the scientific method we have developed during the last few decades to find out more about the world around us and the inner world of our own psyche (which I by the way do not mean in any metaphysical kind of way). But I am also very interested about the things we really do not know and thereby the field of epistemology. And now we only have to step back just one more step we arrive in the broad domain which we call philosophy to which I am drawn in a very general sense. I think a lot of different great philosophers attributed a lot to the human society and great philosophers still do. One of my favorite philosophers is Nietzsche, which contributed a lot to the field of ethics.
Next to science and philosophy I can also enjoy culture, especially in the form of pre-modern art. I had the luck of attending gymnasium during my high school and therefore I learned a lot about classical art, from vases to architecture to paintings. I know less about modern art, but I still can enjoy this as well. I also like to engage in other cultures by learning foreign languages, by talking with people about their culture and by learning about history. One culture I find especially interesting is the Japanese culture. I am trying to master the Japanese language and I watch a lot of anime.
The art form I prefer above all other forms of art is music. The nice thing about music is that it automatically has a semantic value while on the other hand being very abstract. It is also the only art which I practice myself: I play piano, I sing in a choir and sometimes I also play carillon. I also compose music and of course I also listen to music a lot. However, my passion about music is mainly restricted to classical music and jazz music.
I am not much of a gamer, but one game I do like very much is Minecraft. I like this game because of the great freedom you have while playing it. What I do most of the time is creating buildings in different architectural styles, but I also like to make working systems like an item sorter. I mainly play Minecraft in survival mode, but creative mode can also be a lot of fun.
There are many things I am interested in, but of course I also have a lot of things I dislike. For example, I do not watch television a lot. If I watch television I mostly watch the public channels, but even this I only do when I happen to be at my parents home and they watch television. The thing I dislike the most is watching sport on television. I do not dislike doing sports, I swim two kilometers a week, but watching sport I simply think of as boring.
I also do not like to go to places where there are a lot of people or where there is a lot of noise. If you like to party a lot, we are probably not a good couple. I also do not like to drink excessive amounts of alcohol or use drugs. Generally, I am very law obedient and also a moralist. I think the fruit of life does not lie in big quantities, but that you can enjoy it more if it is served in restricted amounts. For example, I regularly drink a glass of wine, but never more than two glasses on one evening. I also enjoy smoking pipe, but I only do this once a month (this is partly due to smoking pipe being a lot of work).
Would this hypothetical person then engage in a conversation with me, the next think she might notice is that the language I use is a tad on the formal side, especially my written language (which you already might have noticed). This is mainly because my choice of words are those words that convey the message at its best. Another reason might be that I have to read a lot of scientific literature, which also shapes my language. However, of course my choice of words is also dependent of the company and the mood that I am in, so it varies.
I think this even holds true for something as abstract as music. With music, the composer has the power to convey certain emotions. He also has the means to let the listener wonder over the complex chord progressions, which takes the music to a higher aesthetic level. Finally, I will get annoyed if the music is too predictable and then I most likely will turn it off. I think this is the main reason for me to avoid pop music, for me most of the time it is too boring for me. But this also holds up for a lot of classical music as well, for example I experience this too when I listen to Haydn's music.
Now I have given you very few examples, but I have also tried to convey a framework which also tells you what kind of books, movies, shows and music I like to indulge myself into. About food I am very easy, but I always like to eat food I never tried before as long as it is not dangerous to eat.
If I am surrounded by good company, the next thing I need is a well maintained body of knowledge in order to have a nice conversation. With this I am referring towards the collective body of knowledge, and I also think the conversation gets more interesting when there are a lot of different individual bodies of knowledge.
The next thing I could not do without is music. This is such a huge part of my life that I cannot imagine a life without it. As a disclaimer: I do not mean to say that I am a very good musician by the way.
Finally, I could never do without intellectual stimuli. This does not mean that I am constantly trying to find new stimuli with an impact on the mind, but without these I think I would grow numb very fast.
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