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55 Eastlake, OH Woman


I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 29–65
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Mar 22
5′ 5″ (1.65m)
Body type
Other, but not too serious about it
Aquarius, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from high school
Likes cats

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Looking for fun people for conversation, friendship, mentorship, and perhaps fun.

I march to the beat of a different flogger...
I'm married, in an loving open relationship with a wonderful pagan man who encourages me to be just as outrageous as I want...and loves to journey with me.

I am Pansexual, interested in people without too much worry over what the "wrapping" over their personality is.

What have you always wanted to do/try but have been too worried about what other people would think of you?

I am open-minded, adventurous, and kinky

NOTE: To those of you that send me those IM thingies....PLEASE STOP. It's not that I'm uninterested, it's just that I DON'T DO THAT.
If you are interested in talking with me just send a regular message and i will respond when I have a moment to sit down at the computer.
That instant message me "now" thing is just too pushy as well as too time consuming to be "stuck" in front of the keyboard sending back and forth chatter.."what are you doing?"..."I am answering you...what are YOU doing?"... meh.

A short message that you have ACTUALLY GIVEN SOME THOUGHT TO (see, this is the part most of you neglect..GIVING IT SOME THOUGHT. That means more,than "hi" , or "like your photos" Sheech!)is much better don't you think?

Well I do.


Oh! If you at a self described "Nice Guy" check your profile and realllly read the answers to your questions, cause that description if a Red Flag to most people. The classic "why do women SAY they want a nice guy then ingnore me(this is code for won't fuck me) and then go out with assholes who are bad to them?"
And don't even get me started on the "Friend Zone" whine! (let me ask you "nice guys" ...WHY don't you want to be our friends eh? Oh, that's right...cause you don't want anything from da wymens but sex, and once you realize you're not gonna get any from that woman( cause ya know, just wanting a woman, usually any woman will do, just for sex is NOT being an actual, real life Nice Guy) you start calling her names and whining to everyone how wymens is skanks for not wanting a nice guy like..YOU,
(just for the record, I had a guy friend for several years that became a long time lover. We first met when we were both in relationships and became actual. Real. FRIENDS. Ya know it's actually possible really.
So next time the girl you want, the one you think you somehow DESERVE by dint of being ;A-male & B- a Nice us all a favor and see when about YOU makes women pass you over.
Are you employed? Well groomed? Not a stalker type who doesn't know how to accept "no thanks" with grace? Not living in moms basement? Didn't answer that question about taking advantage of a drink girl "sure I'd hit that !"? Or you don't feel that women are any give you...ANYTHING?

Well then you're right. I have no idea what's wrong either.

* thus endeth the public service portion of this profile. Except for the links. Check it.*
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What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
My husband and I enjoy[ [mentoring others who share our interest in various Lifestyles. We are very active in the local community.
Most of our summer you will find us at Brushwood Folklore Center. A camp in western NY that started as an artist's commune in the late 60's and is still true to the belief that Diversity is Beautiful. Clothing optional, Pagan orieted, kink friendly, and open to all that can be respectful while enjoying themselves.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Being myself, no matter what other people think. (doesn't mean , flaunting laws or harming others, just don't give a rats ass if other people think that I am too...anything)
Not so good at dancing but that don't mean I won't do it. Fire dancing with a drum circle out at camp is a great way to get moving.

Talking to people....most any one about most anything. People are just interesting, sometimes funny and often enlightening without really trying.
Thou you should be warned I have an unfortunate fondness for sexual word play...sort of a one track mind...and ADHD can sometimes make it worse.

You have been warned...
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Grey streaked hair and big grin
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
sushi! Or... a great bloody steak, charred on the outside and dripping juices once you cut into it. (vegans take note...not gonna want to go to dinner with me most likely. lol)

Philip K. Dick...always good...books that make you go "huh"...

Chelsea Quinn Yarbo...her Count Saint-Germain, the original.
gentleman vampire series.
Harlin Ellison and Asimov...the classics.

P.N.Elrod is also good for a twist on the vampire series (yes, I enjoyed vampire stories for quite some time before the current craze)

Anything Sherlock Holmes...the cannon, and the new interpations
Oh, something else I don't do too well...SPELL.* Damn ADHD* and my spell check has gone missing on this computer.....

If this is a bother to you....b ye-bye.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My Glasses! I wouldn't be able to do much of anything else on my list without them.

Books! Most any type from cookbooks to mystery. Acient history to current magazines.

Honesty...mine, yours, and most of all honesty to myself...even when I would prefer otherwise.

My Husband...well I wouldn't want to have to do without him in my life as my friend, lover, playmate, punmaster and silly trivia buddy.

Family....both the blood ones and those by choice.

One more eh?......gonna have to get back to you on that....
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Why people get so bent out of shape when you just don't fit into their idea of what you should be like... better conform.
Pagan, you better conform. Even a religion of non comformity has it fundimentialists..
Bisexual...well you just cannot make up your mind.
Kinky...well even there it's a crap shoot who will be pissed off at you within the kink/swinger community~ Swingers don't understand those that enjoy more than a little slap n tickle. The hard core BDSM don't approve of incorporating sex into a scene....
it just goes on and on....


So be ready to take me as I am and I will do my best to accept you as you really are.

On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Packing to head out to the camp site as soon as work is over. Or if staying in town, inviting friends over for dinnner or heading out to a play party.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Well It's not very "private" as it's a known fact that my hubby and I host kinky play parties and are very involved in our local swingers/kinky community outreach.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
Frist off you need to go back to the top of my profile and make sure you noted that I am MARRIED...but as it is an OPEN RELATIONSHIP, AND WE ARE BOTH POLY AND I AM A SWINGER AS as you can see that leaves lots of room for friends, lovers, playmates and potential family..

However what it doesn't leave any room for is someone looking for their 'one and only" monogomus love of their life> ( I could be the love of your life I suppose, just not gonna be leaving my husband and being yours and yours if you and my husband hit it off....who knows....might have to get a bigger place for all of us... smile)

You are curious..and polite.....and can form complete sentences...without using "text' speak.

Sorry not interested in learning a new language...I have enough to do using the current one properly.

Open minded, and curious, or experienced....but respectful.

I am happily a OPEN relationship, but that doesn't mean I am interested in playing l with YOU. (it's possible...but I still want to know you first! lol)

Oh! I seem to have neglected to put this here it is...NO FRICKIN CHEATERS!! If you cannot respect your partner enough to be honest and upfront about your needs...and handle the possible fallout like an adult...and you sure don't have enought respect for yourself to not sneak...THEN TRY TO HAVE SOME RESPECT FOR ME AND KEEP ME OUT OF IT!