I march to the beat of a different flogger...
I'm married, in an loving open relationship with a wonderful pagan man who encourages me to be just as outrageous as I want...and loves to journey with me.
I am Pansexual, interested in people without too much worry over what the "wrapping" over their personality is.
What have you always wanted to do/try but have been too worried about what other people would think of you?
I am open-minded, adventurous, and kinky
NOTE: To those of you that send me those IM thingies....PLEASE STOP. It's not that I'm uninterested, it's just that I DON'T DO THAT.
If you are interested in talking with me just send a regular message and i will respond when I have a moment to sit down at the computer.
That instant message me "now" thing is just too pushy as well as too time consuming to be "stuck" in front of the keyboard sending back and forth chatter.."what are you doing?"..."I am answering you...what are YOU doing?"... meh.
A short message that you have ACTUALLY GIVEN SOME THOUGHT TO (see, this is the part most of you neglect..GIVING IT SOME THOUGHT. That means more,than "hi" , or "like your photos" Sheech!)is much better don't you think?
Well I do.
Oh! If you at a self described "Nice Guy" check your profile and realllly read the answers to your questions, cause that description if a Red Flag to most people. The classic "why do women SAY they want a nice guy then ingnore me(this is code for won't fuck me) and then go out with assholes who are bad to them?"
And don't even get me started on the "Friend Zone" whine! (let me ask you "nice guys" ...WHY don't you want to be our friends eh? Oh, that's right...cause you don't want anything from da wymens but sex, and once you realize you're not gonna get any from that woman( cause ya know, just wanting a woman, usually any woman will do, just for sex is NOT being an actual, real life Nice Guy) you start calling her names and whining to everyone how wymens is skanks for not wanting a nice guy like..YOU,
(just for the record, I had a guy friend for several years that became a long time lover. We first met when we were both in relationships and became actual. Real. FRIENDS. Ya know it's actually possible ....no really.
So next time the girl you want, the one you think you somehow DESERVE by dint of being ;A-male & B- a Nice Guy..do us all a favor and see when about YOU makes women pass you over.
Are you employed? Well groomed? Not a stalker type who doesn't know how to accept "no thanks" with grace? Not living in moms basement? Didn't answer that question about taking advantage of a drink girl "sure I'd hit that !"? Or you don't feel that women are obligated..in any way....to give you...ANYTHING?
Well then you're right. I have no idea what's wrong either.
* thus endeth the public service portion of this profile. Except for the links. Check it.*