I am a well-rounded soul that grew up in the country and moved to the city in search of diversity. I like all sorts of things from all sorts of places, and can find my groove in almost any situation. It is one of my goals in life to ensure that the important people in my life know how much they are loved.
I read more nonfiction than fiction, but I am not opposed to a good story. I have just found that oftentimes the best stories are the true ones. I also play music and sing on the regular, and like pushing myself to test my existing skills and learn new ones. I have completely changed my life from the way I grew up, and most of that change has occurred of my own volition.
I'm looking for a friend/lover with some combination of the following qualities that I can "round up to the one" (bonus if you get that reference):
You are a make-something-out-of-nothing sort of person...the kind of person who can see value in everything. You are equally comfortable with deep philosophical conversations and witty banter...even better if you vacillate easily between the two. You can work with your hands. You know how to fix things. You can teach me things. You want me to teach you things. You are GGG and sex-positive. Maybe you don't know exactly what you want, but you are willing to have the conversations to figure it out. You are interested in getting to know people, and have the skills to engage them. You are out and about. You are ready to launch. You like to cuddle and watch a documentary. You understand the importance of connection. Maybe you are judgmental but you always give a person the benefit of your own ignorance (we are human, after all). You are honest. You are genuine. You are fun. You make me laugh. You are ALIVE.
I don't really care how tall you are, what kind of car you drive, how much money you make, or who you know. I might be impressed, but none of that is going to phoenix us through the inevitable fires that flare up in human interaction.
Also, thanks to OKC, I have recently discovered the term "sapiosexual." In addition to being an awesome word, it is also an accurate description of me.