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myheartinflames

27 Singapore, Singapore Woman

Woman

I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 27–36
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 6:53am
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
Asian
Height
4′ 7″ (1.40m)
Body type
Curvy
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Drugs
Never
Religion
Islam
Sign
Sagittarius, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Art / Music / Writing
Income
Rather not say
Status
Single
Type
Strictly monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Malay (Fluently), German (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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First up: I'm on a wheelchair due to a chronic illness so if you're not willing to look past that, please move on to other matches.

I am a little shy and quiet around someone new but once the ice has been broken, I'm one of those people who cares a lot and would invest so much of myself to the ones I love. An introvert by nature, big crowds aren't exactly my cup of tea. I prefer being around smaller groups of people and engage in conversations where I don't necessarily need to constantly yell in their ears and vice versa. Cafés and art galleries are some places I'd feel very much at home.

I absolutely love being creative! I enjoy photography, filmmaking, writing, a bit of drawing here and there. I really can't imagine myself doing anything else besides creating.

In case you're curious, according to MBTI, I'm an INFJ and I dare say their profiling is pretty spot on.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm a digital artist at a photo studio. I also make films and photography on the side.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
being everyone's counsellor.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My "ride". Yep, it can't get any more obvious :P
Personality wise, I've been told (by friends and the likes) that I come off as "quiet, cold and intimidating" at first. Try getting to know me first, that might help! ;)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: I love works of Agatha Christie, Stieg Larsson, Jo Nesbø, Anne Rice, Edgar Allan Poe, Jelaluddin Rumi, H.P. Lovecraft, Sylvia Plath, John Donne, W.B. Yeats, John Keats, Jean-Paul Sartre, Simone de Beauvoir, Friedrich Nietzsche, Søren Kierkegaard, Carl Jung... and a bunch of books about Sufism. I am really into Persian poetry these days.

Movies: I'm a massive movie buff! I've seen and enjoyed movies from the 1920's, all the way to present day in any language and genre. Some my favourite directors include John Carpenter, Lars Von Trier, Darren Aronofsky, Stanley Kubrick, Tim Burton, Ingmar Bergman, Guillermo del Toro, Anton Corbijn, Martin Scorsese, Alfred Hitchcock, Carl Theodore Dreyer, Guy Ritchie, Quentin Tarantino. My favourite movie genre is horror without a doubt!

Shows: Criminal Minds, Law & Order: Special Victims Unit, Guys With Kids, How I Met Your Mother, MasterChef Australia and since I'm a Liverpool fan (since 1998!), I try to watch their live matches when I can. YNWA!

Music: Gothic rock, death rock, post-punk, industrial, darkwave, gothic metal, doom metal, black metal, folk metal, melodic death metal, classic rock, ska, rocksteady, 80's new wave, Sufi music.

Food: Life is too short to be a cow and eat grass all the time. I'm a girl who loves her meat, thank you.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
my chance at love, chasing my dreams, how to make a difference in the world, guys who want/prefer women to make the first move and when there is one they're quick to dismiss them or label them as 'cheap', guys aren't actually as simple as they claimed to be, why extreme metal music do not get radio airplay yet misogynist music gets overplayed, what happens to us after death, how hard it is to be an introvert in an extroverted society, why people are so quick to judge on a person's physical attributes while bypassing their personality, brain and other positive traits that one might possess, why do some people on OKC thinks it's a turn-on to call themselves 'ordinary' when there's nothing appealing about being 'ordinary' and why do people messaged me to give me positive reinforcements that my life is going to be fine despite my disability even though it isn't sympathy nor well-wishes I am looking for here....

And yes, I do think a lot. That's what introverts do, right? 😉
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
working, unfortunately. I work 6 days a week and don't really have a big circle of friends, hence why I'm using this thing....
You should message me if
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you like what you have read and want to get to know me better. And maybe travel to Norway with me one day. 👍

But please DON'T message me if you:
- have a sick fetish for goth girls. I dress however I want and listen to what I want but not for your role-playing fantasy.
- are some sick 'devotee' for girls with disabilities. Seriously, you're creeping me out. I want a relationship where a person likes me for who I am and not a relationship that centralized around my disability. And if your messages solely consists of/about my disability, I'd most likely ignore you too. Yes, my disability is a part of me but I am SO MUCH MORE than what I lack.
- are a misogynistic person.
- expect me to change and suit to your preference of the kind of girl you want. Isn't a relationship supposed to be about 2 people accepting each other for what, who and how they are?
- still can't get over your ex. What are you doing here then? If you're not ready to move on, then get off this site.