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myheartinflames

26 F Singapore, Singapore

I’m looking for

  • Straight guys only
  • Ages 27–36
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 10:51am
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
Asian
Height
4′ 7″ (1.40m)
Body Type
A little extra
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Drugs
Never
Religion
Islam
Sign
Sagittarius, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Entertainment / Media
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Malay (Fluently), German (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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First up: I'm on a wheelchair due to a chronic illness so if you're not willing to look past that, please move on to other matches.

I am a little shy at first meet, it usually takes me a while for me to warm up to someone new. Once the ice has been broken, I'm one of those people who care a lot and would invest so much of myself to the ones I love.

I absolutely love being creative! I enjoy photography, filmmaking, writing, a bit of drawing here and there. I really can't imagine myself doing anything else besides creating and I find it very attractive when a man is passionate about something in his life too - doesn't have to be in the creative line, though.

An introvert by nature, big crowds aren't exactly my cup of tea. I prefer being around smaller groups of people and engage in conversations where I don't necessarily need to constantly yell in their ears and vice versa. I enjoy café hopping and visiting art galleries and exhibitions. I've also been told that I'm an old soul... my favourite bands come from the 80's, my pastime is writing letters to people over the other side of the globe and sometimes, I feel like I'm 40 instead of 26.

In case you're curious, I'm an INFJ (according to MBTI).
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I graduated from uni last year and I'm currently working as a digital artist at a photo studio. I also make films and do photography on the side.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
being everyone's counsellor.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My "ride". Yep, it can't get any more obvious :P
Personality wise, I've been told (by friends and the likes) that I come off as "quiet, cold and intimidating" at first. However, they'd soon realised that I'm anything but that. Instead of judging me at first glance, try to get to know me instead! :D
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: I love works of Agatha Christie, Stieg Larsson, Jo Nesbø, Anne Rice, Edgar Allan Poe, Jelaluddin Rumi, H.P. Lovecraft, Sylvia Plath, John Donne, W.B. Yeats, John Keats, Jean-Paul Sartre, Simone de Beauvoir, Friedrich Nietzsche, Søren Kierkegaard, Carl Jung... and a bunch of books about Sufism.

Movies: I'm a massive movie buff! I've seen and enjoyed movies from the 1920's, all the way to present day in any language and genre. Some my favourite directors include John Carpenter, Lars Von Trier, Darren Aronofsky, Stanley Kubrick, Tim Burton, Ingmar Bergman, Guillermo del Toro, Anton Corbijn, Martin Scorsese, Alfred Hitchcock, Carl Theodore Dreyer, Guy Ritchie, Quentin Tarantino.
Some of my favourite films of all time include Nosferatu: eine Symphonie des Grauens, Gladiator, The Exorcist, El Laberinto del Fauno, Edward Scissorhands, Until The Light Takes Us, Carrie, Halloween, Predator, Hot Fuzz, The Secret Life of Walter Mitty, The Book Thief, Dek Hor, The Departed, Blood Diamond, Ringu, A Clockwork Orange, Stand By Me, Donnie Darko, Jacob's Ladder, Shutter (original Thai film), The Number 23 (and everything else that has Jim Carrey in it), Girl Interrupted, The Human Centipede, I Am Sam, Transporter, I Spit On Your Grave, Mørke, Andreaskorset, Sundel Bolong, Romper Stomper, Saw, Schindler's List.... just to name a few.

Shows: Criminal Minds, Law & Order: Special Victims Unit, Guys With Kids, How I Met Your Mother, MasterChef Australia and since I'm a Liverpool fan (since 1998!), I try to watch their live matches when I can. YNWA!

Music: Bauhaus, Peter Murphy, The Sisters of Mercy, Depeche Mode, Joy Division, The Cure, H.I.M., The Smiths, Marilyn Manson, Siouxsie and the Banshees, Specimen, Skeletal Family, Switchblade Symphony, Sex Gang Children, Xmal Deutschland, London After Midnight, The Misfits, Combichrist, Blutengel, :wumpscut:, Grendel, Nachtmahr, Heimataerde, Unter Null, VNV Nation, The Crüxshadows, Brandon Ashley, Ayria, pzychobitch, Assemblage 23, Seraphim Shock, Evanescence, Scarling, Hole, Pearl Jam, The Specials, Madness, Satyricon, Isengard, Storm, 1349, Darkthrone, Emperor, Dissection, Immortal, Stridsmenn, Darkened Nocturn Slaughtercult, Ulver, Taake, Tsjuder, Battlelore, Ensiferum.... basically, lots of gothic rock, post-punk, industrial, darkwave and black metal. Oh hey, I love classic rock too!

Food: As long as it isn't piggy related, I guess I'm quite an adventurous eater. Life is too short to be a cow and eat grass all the time.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Spirituality.
Creating.
Love.
Dreams.
Knowledge.
Tea.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
my turn to love and be loved. It's kinda frustrating when you're surrounded by lovebirds and you're just there. Alone. With no one to share your interests, thoughts and dreams with.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
working, unfortunately.
You should message me if
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- something I've said struck you.
- you're someone who likes animals.
- you don't bring up your ex every now and then during our conversations. Seriously, don't bother, I'm not interested. Please sort out your excess baggage first.
- you're NOT a racist or don't talk down about other races. Can't stand racists. Can't stand homophobes either.
- you're an ENFP or ENTP (apparently, we're supposed to be a great match?). This is optional though.