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myheartinflames

27 Singapore, Singapore Woman

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I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 27–38
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
Sep 1
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
Asian
Height
4′ 7″ (1.40m)
Body Type
A little extra
Smokes
No
Drugs
Never
Religion
Islam
Sign
Sagittarius, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Art / Music / Writing
Income
Rather not say
Status
Single
Type
Strictly monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Malay (Fluently), German, Norwegian, Spanish
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
First up: I'm on a wheelchair due to a chronic illness so if you're not willing to look past that, please move on to other matches. I don't need hate messages, thank you very much! :)

Now that we have gotten that out of the way... please be assured that whilst the illness is a part of me, it doesn't necessarily defines me entirely. I'm a creative little bunny who dabbles in photography, filmmaking, graphic design, writing and a bit of drawing here and there. Being creative makes me feel alive, as cliché as it sounds.

An introvert by nature, big crowds aren't exactly my cup of tea. I love having my quiet, quality time with my mind wandering into dimensions I never thought existed. Or with my family and friends, if that sounds more 'normal' to you. Cinema, cafés, art galleries and craft stores are some places I'd feel very much at home.

I'm a little shy around unfamiliar faces and in unfamiliar environment. But I'd like to think that I have a big heart and would invest so much of myself to the ones I love and matter.

In case you're curious, according to MBTI, I'm an INFJ and I dare say their profiling is pretty spot on.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I work on freelance projects for the time being.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Being everyone's counsellor. Not that it's a bad thing as I do like to help, as much as I possibly can. Maybe it's an INFJ thing.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My "ride". Yep, it can't get any more obvious :P
Honestly, I don't really care much about first impressions. Come talk to me and find out!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: I love works of Agatha Christie, Stieg Larsson, Jo Nesbø, Anne Rice, Edgar Allan Poe, Jelaluddin Rumi, H.P. Lovecraft, Sylvia Plath, John Donne, W.B. Yeats, John Keats, Forugh Farrokhzad, Jean-Paul Sartre, Simone de Beauvoir, Friedrich Nietzsche, Søren Kierkegaard, Carl Jung... and a bunch of books about Sufism. I love poetry a whole lot and I own a number of poetry books.

Movies: I'm a massive movie buff! Horror, action, comedy, I'd watch them all. I've seen and enjoyed movies from the 1920's, all the way to present day in any language and genre. Some my favourite directors include John Carpenter, Lars Von Trier, Darren Aronofsky, Stanley Kubrick, Tim Burton, Ingmar Bergman, Guillermo del Toro, Anton Corbijn, Martin Scorsese, Alfred Hitchcock, Carl Theodore Dreyer, Guy Ritchie, Quentin Tarantino.

Shows: Criminal Minds, How To Get Away With Murder, Scorpion, Law & Order: Special Victims Unit, Guys With Kids, How I Met Your Mother, MasterChef Australia and since I'm a Liverpool fan (since 1998!), I try to watch their live matches when I can. YNWA!

Music: Gothic rock, death rock, post-punk, industrial, darkwave, metal, classic rock, ska, rocksteady, new wave, Sufi music. I'm a huge fan of Bauhaus and Peter Murphy's solo music.

Food: Life is too short to be a cow and eat grass all the time. I'm a girl who loves her meat, thank you.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Love.
Art.
Knowledge.
Dreams.
Music.
Tea.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I noticed a few guys who've viewed my profile a number of times but did not send me a message. Why? What's holding you back?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Unpredictable. Due to my status as a full-time freelancer, my working hours are indefinite so I could be working on a Friday night or having a night in.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
- We're at 90% match and you're wondering why aren't we talking yet. ;-) No seriously, though. Just go right ahead regardless of match percentage. You have nothing to lose!

- You would like to go to Iceland and see the aurora borealis with me one day.

- You like to read. There's nothing more attractive than a person who reads.

BUT that "I don't bite" thing... yeah, that has to stop. It's been overplayed, it's redundant and unoriginal. It's not even funny or cheeky anymore.

Please DON'T message me to tell me how sorry you feel about my condition and/or that you'll pray I'll get well/recover. You probably have good intentions but please, just don't. I'm not here for sympathy and have never lived from getting sympathy votes from others. And not all conditions are curable. My condition will stay with me until the day I die so if you can't live with that, well, I can't live with you either then. Sometimes, life isn't about chasing a perfect health or perfect whatever. Sometimes, you just have to make do with what you have, regardless of what you lack.