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36 Oakland, CA Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 28–48
  • Near me
  • For new friends, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 5:47am
6′ 2″ (1.88m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
Open relationship
Doesn’t have kids
My self-summary
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Ok... Off the bat I'm in open or perhaps more accurately "monogamish" relationship. I haven't seen anyone else separately in awhile.I'm not including a photo cause I'm(or we're) just kinda private about it. I can send a photo if we chat.

I'm not looking for a second/poly relationship but definitely open to connection and friendship. I'm a bit introverted so talking about my intimate relationships feels sort of strange but also necessary.

A few positives (or not) about me:
Can partner dance fairly well.
Pretty well read, intellectually curious
No Drama.
Low maintainence.
Tall, muscular in decent shape.
Not Desperate or overbearing
Respectful, not a stalker or a flake.
Have some free/flexible time in my daily
What I’m doing with my life
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I have a job that pays the bills and I'm plenty comfortable with a modest lifestyle.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Sleeping, partner dancing (ok at least).
The first things people usually notice about me
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Tall, I guess.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: William Burroughs, Bukowski. Nonfiction, political economy, history.

Artists: Pettibone,
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Not working, world travel, revolution, beautiful women.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Having fun. Seeing live music. Drinking beer. Salsa/latin dancing. Hanging with friends. Short out of town get always. Activist activities. Art or cultural events.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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You should message me if
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No drama. Cute. Intellectual.