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mykeljay

34 / M / Gay / Single

Dublin, Ireland

His Details

Last Online
May 11
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 2″ (1.88m).
Body Type
Average
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Christianity
Sign
Aries
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Artistic / Musical / Writer
Income
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English, Spanish

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My self-summary
I'm complicated, you're complicated; let's hug.

I've been single for some time now, so any self-summary at this point should only serve to adequately paint me as a loner and sure, I've learned to like being single; I've gotten quite used to it -- used to conquering the days alone and when I come home to no one in particular, something that was once vexing, I don't mind it very much.

My life is a little wacky, but whose isn't? Some days I'm a movie star. Most days I'm a wallflower.

I just recently moved back to LA after moving home for a couple of years to take care of some family business. I'm happy to be back. I'm living alone for the for the first time in my life which is a huge change for me. I've always had roommates, so I'm excited to have my own place.

I work for a psychiatrist in West Hollywood and I'm learning that I love my job, but it's stressful and I'm a workaholic. I attribute my long hours to not having a man in my life. I think I'll cool it a little once I have someone to look forward to after work. :) If anything, I'd love to build a good, close circle of gay friends to spend time with; I'm all about a good happy hour!

I love to cook. It's very relaxing. I love to bake. I love following a recipe. I love improvising a recipe.

I love to run, when I'm not feeling lazy. Did that make sense? I know everyone says it's bad for the knees, but I love it. I have a selection of playlists on my iPhone for my jogs and their coinciding mood. There's no better feeling for me than when I'm about to give up and walk the rest of the way home and the perfect song shuffles into my headphones. It always happens at the perfect moment too.

I love taking baths. I like to soak late at night; with or without Epsom salts, with or without bubbles, usually by candlelight and soft music.

If you've read this far, pat yourself on the back as you are amongst a lowly few who actually read these things. Actually, you're amongst the lowly few who actually read. Kudos!
What I’m doing with my life
Making art, making theatre, and carrying out my new 5-year plan that includes getting an MFA in performance studies.
I’m really good at
spelling [or spell checking, rather].
The first things people usually notice about me
You tell me. Actually, I get "you look just like my friend so & so" more often than I care to admit. I always thought I had a unique look; apparently not. I remind people of other people. It's a gift.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Currently reading Aftermath of Dreaming by DeLauné Michel and The Evolution of Ethan Poe by Robin Reardon. Well, not so much reading as they're just collecting dust on my bedside table lately.

I like a lot of moody coming-of-age films, edgy comedies, and I have a penchant for queer cinema of the late 80s to today.

I'm a Whovian.

http://www.last.fm/user/DeLiCioUsFiReS

I make a killer panna cotta, to-die-for gorgonzola and carmelized pear quesadillas, and ridiculous golden raisin stuffed baked apples.
The six things I could never do without
I could do without a lot, but I suppose the six things I don't want to do without would be my computer, my car, my bed, my face wash, my protein bars, and my family n' friends. (Notice the clever way I combined two things.)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Work, French Provincial furniture, and the incongruous nature of this questionnaire. Not so much the latter, but it got you thinking, right?
On a typical Friday night I am
making mischief. Not really, but it sounded good, didn't it?
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like guys
  • Ages 25–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
you feel compelled to break the perpetual state of "just browsing" in which all of the gay men on OKCupid seem to find themselves.