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35 Los Angeles, CA Man


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 25–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 7:15pm
Hispanic / Latin, White
6′ 2″ (1.88m)
Body Type
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English, Spanish

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My self-summary
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I'm complicated, you're complicated; let's hug. I mean, that's basically it, right? Okay, there's more. I've recently ended a somewhat long relationship. Well, long for me: a year. I'm sure that says something about my relationship history, but what have you, just know that I learned a lot this last go-round. I learned that I don't see myself as a father anytime soon. I harbor a great deal of wanderlust and my idea of "settling down" involves a lot of travelling. I'm a city boy through and through. One of my sisters lives in Riverside with her hubby and my adorkable niece and nephew and although I love visiting her happy home, it's a lifestyle choice that's just not for me.

Forgive me if this gets a little erratic, I'm doing my best to give you a good idea of who I am because I'm very serious about meeting a quality man and building a strong relationship.

Okay, let's see, I'm very protective of my "me time". What can I say? I'm the moody artsy type. I need time to brood. Some other things you should know: I don't like washing dishes. I will cook for you, just be ready to clean the dishes. ;-) I am, however a borderline "neat freak". I don't know where it comes from. I've been like that since I was a kid. I was always very clean and organized. Oh, and I live alone. I have a cute little flat in the 'hood between K-town and DTLA proper called Westlake. I'm very proud of my wee studio. I have my very own garage where I park my wee smart car (another pride and joy). I've been told I'm good at decorating and maximizing small spaces. I'm quite proud of that. I've helped several friends and two of my sisters with their homes and I love coming up with creative ideas for spaces. I know I missed my calling. Or have I? I've atually recently started entertaining the idea of going back to school for interior design. I would also like to eventually earn an MFA in performance studies. I have a theatre background and have imagined myself a professor somewhere, stretching my creative muscles. There are a lot of teachers in my family and it only seems fitting I too should want to pursue academia as a profession.

So, you know I have sisters; three of them actually, and two brothers. Both of my parents are deceased. My mother died when I was 9 and my dad passed a couple of years ago. I'm very well-adjusted, by the way. Sure, I get sad from time to time, but I'm not broken up about it.

Okay, I don't want to give too much away so soon. Wanna know more? Let's go out! Remember dating? I know, it's so subversive these days.
What I’m doing with my life
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Making art, making theatre, and making a new 5-year plan.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
spelling [or spell checking, rather].
The first things people usually notice about me
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You tell me.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Currently reading Aftermath of Dreaming by DeLauné Michel, The Evolution of Ethan Poe by Robin Reardon, God and the Gay Christian by Matthew Vines, and recently added for a discussion group I've joined, Changing Our Mind by David P. Gushee.

I like a lot of moody coming-of-age films, edgy comedies, and I have a penchant for queer cinema of the late 80s to today.

I'm a Whovian. That's kind of a big deal. I also love The Walking Dead.

Also, follow me on Spotify. I make some pretty stellar playlists (user: MJ Silva). I'm also a music maker myself:

I make a killer panna cotta, to-die-for gorgonzola and carmelized pear quesadillas, incredible mango mac n' Fontina, and ridiculous golden raisin stuffed baked apples.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I could do without a lot, but I suppose the six things I don't want to do without would be my computer, my car, my bed, face wash, music, and my family n' friends. (Notice the clever way I combined two things into one.)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Semi-colons, French Provincial furniture, and the incongruous nature of this questionnaire.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
making mischief. Not really, but it sounded good, didn't it?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I have an OKCupid profile.
You should message me if
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you feel compelled to break the perpetual state of "just browsing" in which all of the gay men on OKCupid seem to find themselves.