Lately I have been doing a lot of soul searching and am happy with the outcome. Still pondering the question - why is a good, honest guy with ambition and goals with a lack of arrogance and a heart full of humility so hard to find?

Known to be friendly, outgoing and dedicated to my job, although sometimes it drives me up the wall. I am close to my mom, brother, his wife and their three sons (my adorable nephews).

I love to listen to music, all kinds. My favorite artist is and always will be Jamiroquai, Madonna, Jamie Cullum & Prince although there are a slew of others that I can listen to at any time. I actually love listening to music while I clean my apartment. I discover so many new tunes that way.

I like what I do for a living, although it is somewhat stressful. I released a book of poetry that had a very limited run, but everyone who purchased a copy seemed to enjoy it. Someone read it and expressed interest in publishing it so I decided to add some new jots, delete some older ones.

Now, after countless requests to write more poems, I have decided to start another. Back to the post-it notes here, there and everywhere.

Listening to others and telling them my perspective from my experiences, good or bad. I'm really good at just being there for my friends, and not taking any of them for granted.

I'm also good at disappearing from a party to go home and watch a movie or a season of a television show. I think the release of an entire season on DVD so you don't have to wait for the next episode or watch any commercials is GENIUS!

My reservation about meeting people for the first time. My heart is kinda guarded but still open to meeting interesting guys without a lot of baggage and complications...

and the way I dress, which is more casual then before. (circa 2003: The way I like to be seen, a flannel shirt and dirty blue jeans. -- I have definitely changed my style of dress.)

Books - I read 4 books a year whether I want to or not!! My latest is a biography about '70s disco queen Sylvester.

Movies - Give me a good drama so I can realize that the drama in my life t'aint that bad!! Also, I love to sit back and laugh. I Love You, Man is the funniest movie I've seen this year.

Music = My Life. Just ask my iTouch which is engraved "MUSIC IS MY SEX." I love listening to music. Some of my favorite artist of all time are: Jamiroquai, Prince, Madonna, Janet Jackson, Ashford & Simpson, Erykah Badu, Chet Baker, Beastie Boys, Black Crowes, Mary J. Blige, Mariah Carey, Jamie Cullum, Harry Connick, Jr., Natalie Cole, Foo Fighters, Green Day, Guns & Roses, Whitney Houston, Chris Isaak, Cyndi Lauper, Linkin Park, Madonna, Live, Barry Manilow, Teena Marie, John Mayer, George Michael, Stephanie Mills, Pearl Jam, Red Hot Chili Peppers, Sade, Simply Red, Tina Turner, Jill Scott, U2, Van Halen, Stevie Wonder......

Foods - good ole American Cuisine is fine. I love Shrimp Egg Foo Yong also. My all time favorite is a Cheeseburger, French Fries and a Pepsi please.

My cell phone - my only means of direct contact
Music
Someone to talk to
Sleep - sleeping in is a luxury I don't get too often
Family - always important
I am saving the sixth one for someone special.

treating myself to a luxury vacation because I deserve it!!

1) relaxing from a long week
2) making plans with a few select close friends
3) deciding if there is a new movie release I want to see in case they are all to busy.....

I like sleeping Nude.

you like movies, music and think I would like you too.