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myopicdreams

38 F Santa Clara, CA

I’m looking for

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  • Ages 24–55
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My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 11:48pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body Type
Full figured
Diet
Smokes
Trying to quit
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Religion
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Sign
Libra, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Working on masters program
Job
Student
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Has a kid
Pets
Has dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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I am a study in contradictions. I am soft, hard, scattered, incredibly focused, seriously playful, moral and also amoral, I confuse myself often. I am an artist, a scientist, a mother, a lover, a friend, a child, too stuck in my head. I love life even when I hate it. Beauty beckons like a siren in all its guises and yet I am repelled by the social ramifications it brings. I love unconditionally but without too much emotional attachment. I enjoy paradox and absurdity and yet am compelled to logically sort through it. I am endlessly fascinated with the mind, happiness, good living, satisfaction and how we all make our own paths to get there.

I am brilliant, inspired, and Humble
What I’m doing with my life
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Coaching people to find their maximum possible happiness while working on starting a startup that I believe could fix a big part of what's not working in mental health care.

I'm also working on completing my MA in professional psychology & loving how inspiring people can be. Co-parenting my lovely 5yo with my roommate . Crafting and making art when I can and usually pondering something or another at any given moment.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Unconditional positive regard, laughing, thinking, being a mom, walking the line of pleasure and pain, not delaying gratification, loving beauty, creating beauty, decorating, solving problems, creating, inspiring, enjoying... tasting life.
The first things people usually notice about me
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my eyes and maybe my intensity.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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A) In Cold Blood, The Picture of Dorian Gray, The Handmaid's Tale, The doctor and The Soul, Anatomy of an Epidemic, sometimes chic lit.
B) Hero, princess bride, the cell, cruel intentions, Kinsey, Clueless, The Breakfast Club, Johnny Dangerously, The Life of Brian, The Godfather I & II, Lady and the Tramp.
C) Gypsy jazz, trip hop, classical, jazz, blues, funk, techno, acoustic rock, alternative
d) Indian, Mexican, Chinese, Italian, French, Thai.
Bonus categories:
Artists) Klimt, Dali, de Lampeka, Amy Sol
Art Genres) Lowbrow, pinup, classical, conceptual, mixed
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
mind, challenge, my child, passion, inspiration, hope
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
how to muster the courage to give up what I should do in favor of what I must. How to balance vulnerability and caution in relationships. How to read between the lines. How to get out of my thoughts and into a shared reality. What do I actually want to do/be/learn/live/believe....
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Researching, playing with my daughter, or exploring the world.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Freud and Jung both experienced a "creative sickness" for about 10 years during which they discovered their answers to the things they spent a lot of time thinking about.

I wonder if I have that same bug and how to shorten the time of gestation :-)
You should message me if
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you are easily amused, inspired, or intrigued.

You are emotionally available, flexible, and not too grown up (or don't mind that I'm quite convinced I never might become a "real" grown-up), but are generally able to make good on your word and be counted on.

You don't mind that I am not very good at keeping up with mail so it might take me a very long time to respond.. and in the interest of not being rude, I can pretty much assure you I won't write back if you have an empty profile or have sent me one of a million shotgun-blast notes. I'm trying to get better at responding atm