Well.... it would be nice if they had left journals open and didn't
cancel them. Then I could get people contacting me through comments
on my journals. I like batting ideas around among multiple users.
Retards who don't know how to understand the top part of a profile
(or read this current section for that matter): it shows my
orientation is straight. Just because I'm looking for everyone
doesn't mean I'm bi or gay; don't get all your hopes up (speaking
to the guys). Besides, it
clearly states "everyone" I'm currently looking for be in the
friend or activity partner category
. Activity does NOT MEAN sex
. Yes, sex
is an activity, but that's what "casual sex" check box is for, and
I did NOT
that. I'm being blunt, not indirect.
I know this will conflict with many people, but lately I've been
feeling more like using this site for networking than dating. I'm
just really not interested in anyone I date on this site, and I'm
not sure why. I'd rather not rack up a disappointment; I would much
rather just go out and have a good time with someone. I'm also
on this site for
fwbs or one night stands, so for those of you who like me for my
controversial name, think backwards also, not just forwards.
I like hanging out with a variety of people, just to open my mind a
little. I am busy with school and am something of a procrastinating
introvert, but sometimes I can squeeze something in. So just
message and try it out.
, not just men. But women don't seem to message
me at all. Maybe it's my controversial screen name. ;-b
You should message me
"Shoulda, coulda, woulda" - I'd rather call this a suggestion (or
an "I'm really curious about you if you contain these traits, some
of which I cannot find others who contain them"), not an
-You want to know something related to me.
-you love to cook.
-you love conversation other than small talk
-you don't mind females who are very indecisive about what they
want to do on first meeting
-you're looking for company to go with you on (cheap) adventures.
Nothing like a little bit of random stinginess to kill time having
-you're into being frugal
& can enjoy simple things as
well as the complex; by frugal, I mean doing picnics with grocery
foods, or along lines of that, not going out to restaurants.
-you like picnicking - this means you know how to plan and
collaborate with people, not just depend on me to do it.
-you want to share your knowledge about motorcycles
. I have a fantasy that
one day I will own one AND can afford it comfortably.
-you're not easily offended by liberal (or sometimes conservative)
opinions, or by personal subjects I easily and readily talk
-you don't mind being asked very personal questions and don't find
it offending, and answer them honestly and bluntly. Some people
think they do this and claim to be communicative, but when
questioned about something sensitive, they shut you out in the dark
-JUST BECAUSE; this isn't a list requirement for your freedom of
speech. Your messages will arrive in my mail safely. Then again, I
do have the right to ignore reading things, too. I'm human and
can't pay attention to EVERYTHING.
You will probably have better luck if you just ask to hang
out upfront right away - AND pick an activity you like doing. I
take things slowly, so let me get to know you under first