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21 Burlington, VT Man


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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 18–30
  • Near me
  • Who are single
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Last online
Yesterday – 10:59am
6' 0" (1.83m)
Body Type
Working on University
Doesn’t have kids
English, Spanish (Somewhat), Sign Language (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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I consider myself a very caring, genuine guy. I tend towards introversion but when I'm with the right people I become the heart of the party. I have a dry sense of humor that many people miss if they aren't listening well enough. I am very creative, emotionally connected, and spiritual. I feel things very deeply, but I don't regret this, because it feeds my artistic passion: songwriting. I often have trouble choosing a direction, because I have so many different interests and passions, but when I find something worthwhile, it sticks. I hold myself to high standards of trustworthiness and human decency, and would never intentionally hurt another person. I am just a laid-back musician who thinks a lot and watches as life rushes by.
What I’m doing with my life
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I am currently attending the University of Vermont as an undergraduate student. I am majoring in psychology and minoring in music with the hope to become a music therapist, so I can use my passion for music to help others. I recently added a Communications Science and Disorders minor.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Violin, Guitar, Ukulele, Singing, Songwriting.
Bartending (new hobby), cooking on a budget.
Listening. Empathy. Expression.
Reading between the lines.
Finding the pun. Making dad jokes.
*Being humble*
The first things people usually notice about me
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My hipster-esque glasses. My red beard. My friendly nature. My dry, yet raunchy sense of humor.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Engine Summer- John Crowley
Dandelion Wine, Fahrenheit 451- Ray Bradbury
A Handmaid's Tale, MaddAddam trilogy- Margaret Atwood
9 Stories, Catcher in the Rye, by JD Sallinger
LOTR, Brave New World, 1984, Swan Song, Life of Pi, Watchmen (graphic novel, I know), ASOIAF.

Once, Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, Lars and the Real Girl, Memento, Monty Python and the Holy Grail, Sita Sings the Blues, LOTR trilogy, Back to the Future trilogy, The Matrix, Fight Club, anything and everything ever made by Hayao Miyazaki and/or Studio Ghibli.

Doctor Who, Friends, Pushing Daisies, The Unbreakable Kimmy Schmidt, House of Cards, Broad City, Don't Trust the B**** in Apartment 23, Chowder, Bob's Burgers, Steven Universe, Parks and Recreation, Hannibal, Daredevil, Monk, Avatar: The Last Airbender, Legend of Korra, So You Think You Can Dance, Ru Paul's Drag Race, etc.

My taste in music is a little eclectic. Here are the highlights:
Darwin Deez, Childish Gambino, The Milk Carton Kids, The Swell Season, OK Go, Jamie Cullum, Punch Brothers, Feist, The Strokes, The Killers, Radiohead, Jason Mraz, Coldplay (their old stuff), Justin Timberlake, Beyonce, Bon Iver, Jackson Browne, Norah Jones, Passenger, Radical Face, Bjork, FKA Twigs, Fleet Foxes, The Beatles, James Taylor, Iron and Wine, Daft Punk, The Shins, Anais Mitchell...
I could go on and on...

Everything. I love food. I enjoy all types, and am willing to try anything once. I also love to cook!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. My guitar
2. The woods
3. Sleep
4. A friend
5. A muse
6. A good book
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
My purpose in life. Why humans act the way they do. The words to the next verse of a song I'm writing. Where the ducks go.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Mixing new cocktails and playing board games with friends. While I am game for the occasional party, (and I love bonfires), I am just as content to play Cards Against and spend time talking with the people who matter in my life.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Historically, I'm a very open person, sometimes to a fault. I tend to put myself in a very vulnerable position, which can and has hurt me before, but I don't regret it. Openness can lead to great things and deep connections, and any hurt it brings I will turn into art.
You should message me if
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You think you'd like to get to know me. I don't have any expectations, nor am I looking for any one thing. I want to meet people, and what happens from there is wide open. I am looking for kindred spirits, so message me!