55 Grants Pass, OR
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My self-summary
Hi...Thank you so much for stopping by! Here's a little bit about me....I have been hearing about this personality test and I finally ran across it and took it. I am an ENFP....And it had this brief overview of what that means and who I am so to speak. Interesting stuff. "The ENFP personality is a true free spirit. They are often the life of the party, but unlike Explorers, they are less interested in the sheer excitement and pleasure of the moment than they are in enjoying the social and emotional connections they make with others. Charming, independent, energetic and compassionate, the 7% of the population that they comprise can certainly be felt in any crowd. ENFPs are fiercely independent, and much more than stability and security, they crave creativity and freedom....ENFPs will spend a lot of time exploring social relationships, feelings and ideas before they find something that really rings true. But when they finally do find their place in the world, their imagination, empathy and courage are likely to produce incredible results."
Yep....that sounds exactly like me! :-)
You can find this test at
I am an optimist...happy in my skin...considerate of others...approachable... engaging...confident but not arrogant.....relaxed and VERY easy going... I've got good manners.... pay attention... communicate well... willing to learn....Love to laugh and see you laughing too!!
What I’m doing with my life
This could be a long answer....But, I'll keep it short and sweet..... I like wearing a few hats in terms of work...I've been self employed for 14 years.... I am a homeowner and have a small farm on 11 acres. I grow chile peppers and manufacture a dry spice blend, hot sauce and 3 flavors of BBQ sauce that sell in local stores and are used in local restaurants.... I do quite a bit of home repair and handyman work and occasionally work with my father operating heavy equipment.....I Enjoy learning about and employing Organic and sustainable farming principles. I'm hoping to spend more time helping others do the same...I am totally intrigued with learning about healthy soil and composting.... There is an incredible universe of life that exists in compost rich soil....
I am continuing my guitar playing education.... I am more and more involved in promoting and producing live music at local clubs, festivals and wineries here in Southern Oregon... I also co-manage a very successful band out of Portland.
I'm spending as much time as I can with my kids...they now live in Portland with their mom....I'm growing up slowly....aging well and really a happy soul....looking for a woman who might be interested in sharing this life and allowing me to share in hers. Is it you? :-)
I’m really good at
Writing, Communicating and listening...
Cooking, Farming/Gardening
getting to know strangers
striking up a conversation
Making soup....I'm a soup nazi :-p
Keeping people guessing and laughing
And a whole bunch of other stuff!...
You're gonna have to search me out.
The first things people usually notice about me
That I am approachable, friendly, talkative and generally always in a good mood. I love kids and babies... (and they love me too)
I am optimistic and happy about life. Attitude is everything and enthusiasm is contagious.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I prefer music ...Love Folk, Blues and Jazz. Some of my favorites are Ray Lamontagne, Amos Lee, Patty Griffin, Shawn Colvin, Little Walter, John Mayer, Joe Bonamassa, Ray Charles, Nina Simone, ....It's a LONG list....Books about gardening, farming, music and history.
As to movies..Romantic comedies, Dramas and Documentaries.
My favorite food is Thai. Followed closely by Italian, Mexican and BBQ! I can make a deep dish Lasagna that would make an Italian Gramma weep tears of joy...And maybe you to :-) I can't live without Oatmeal and Craisins ....and English muffins with peanut butter.
Favorite Quote: “You don't love someone for their looks, or their clothes, or for their fancy car, but because they sing a song only you can hear.” - Oscar Wilde.... Nice Huh?
The six things I could never do without
Companionship with friends and family, Music in general. Especially live music. The mountains, rivers and streams that surround the beautiful place I live in. Having satisfying work to do each day. I can't live without Avocados....And finally, the sixth thing I don't want to do without is the sweetness that comes with romance and the wonderful dance that comes with new love. Would YOU care to dance?
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Kale, Frisbee, Knitting, Cabbage, Volleyball, Bulldozer parts, Spring gardening, Whirled order.....Also GMO labeling, good soil, permaculture, how to restring a tennis racket, Scrabble, Crater Lake, Pho..... being in love again. .....There are a few others....Daydream travels...Moorea, New Zealand and other warm climates with sandy beeches! Where would you like to go?
On a typical Friday night I am
Listening to live music....And...wondering when I might be listening and dancing with someone cute and magical...Is it you?
Having friends over for dinner....Going out to try a new restaurant
I'm open to new ideas ....what should we do?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Long, Long ago.......I was running naked down a busy.....
You should message me if
You feel like it....
If anything you've read resonates with you.
If you enjoy the simple things in life.
If you like spontaneity and adventure.
If you are seeking a truly down to earth man in your life.
If you understand the long term benefits of being friends first.
I'd love to hear from you I'm sure!