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42 Victoria, British Columbia, CA Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 33–50
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
Jun 20, 2013
5' 6" (1.68m)
Body Type
Full figured
Has kids
Has cats
My self-summary
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I have been single for a long time (by choice) and would like meet people in the hopes of finding something more. Who am I? I am a 39 yr. old, full figured, curvy woman who is intelligent, articulate, witty, and open minded. I love to laugh. I am positive and optimistic. I am a grunge girl at heart with tattoos, and a few small scars where the piercings once were. I like all kinds of rock and folk music. I like to read fiction and geek out to sci-fi fantasy, and action movies. What am I looking for? Well Love of course, but for now I am looking for someone to get to know and spend some time with. I am looking for someone who has their own life, as my life can be very busy at times. Ultimately I am interested in a relationship that has long term potential. I am looking for someone who is intelligent, humorous, and who can, at times, be silly. Most importantly someone who is emotionally mature, which turns out is a rare trait; which is sad considering the age range we are in. You must be able to communicate about your thoughts and feelings when necessary. I am not interested in a passive-aggressive relationship, trust is built on understanding. It would be a bonus if you were open to or had your own spiritual beliefs. All the best to you in your search for Love or random hook ups :)
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm learning and growing every day. Each person and situation has something to teach me.
I’m really good at
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The first things people usually notice about me
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My smile
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Time Traveller's Wife, The Perks of Being a Wallflower, The Night Angel Trilogy, The Hunger Games Trilogy, Anatomy of the Spirit, Girl with the Dragon Tattoo trilogy, World War Z, In the Realm of Hungry Ghosts

Movies: The Matrix, Fight Club, Shawshank Redemption, Serenity, We are Legion, Anything Kevin Smith (well almost anything), Harold and Maude, Harry Potter, Wallace and Gromit

TV: Firefly, Heroes, Dexter, Walking Dead, Boardwalk Empire, Survivor, Parenthood, Family Guy, South Park

Music: TOOL, Matthew Good, Of Monsters and Men, Mumford and Sons, Linkin Park, Florence and the Machine,

Food: Greek, Sushi, Pub, Mexican
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My cat
My friends and family
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to respectfully house the abandoned mentally ill in our cities.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
You should message me if
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Any of this rings a bell
And if you live in or around Victoria