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41 Auburn, WA Man


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 30–50
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 3:15pm
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body type
Sagittarius, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Rather not say
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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I'm a queer (mostly into guys), poly (clearly non-monogamous), trans (mostly guy) switch (mostly Top) living in Seattle... mostly.

I am sassy, playful, and cuddly.
What I’m doing with my life
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if I knew that...

-> Doing a job that I enjoy - learning new things almost every day - with people I dig.
-> Being constantly amazed at what getting older feels like. I'm really just not 23 anymore.
-> Being the best papa I can for my little kittens (who are almost 14).
-> Reading 1-2 trashy books a week on my spiffy commute to work
-> Remembering how very important my family is
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
laughing. cuddling. figuring out what's going on within moments of entering the room. reading people. and - whether it's annoying, charming, sweet, or helpful: I'm really good at finding the silver linings in situations that aren't always great. (See, I just did it again.)
The first things people usually notice about me
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Huh. No idea. I'm going to guess it's my smile.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Favorites are hard. Does it count that I like all of the above?

a) Ok - in book world I've been vacillating between bad mysteries (a la Patricia Cornwell or Iris Johansen) and badgood YA (like the Maximum Ride series, the His Dark Materials trilogy, and yes: Twilight). I have a few books in mind for when I start reading Org Design books again, but I don't know where my list went.

b) I watch bad movies. most sports or sport-like movies (including Drumline, Bring it On, Roll Bounce) most superhero movies (including Sky High), Lots of adventurey stuff (like National Treasure), Disaster flicks (especially b & c ones like Flood: A River's Rampage), romantic comedies (especially of the teenie bopper variety like Cinderella Story or 10 Things I Hate About You), things that are trying to pull my heart strings (like the Majestic or 28 Days), Musicals old or new (like Singing in the Rain or HIgh School Musical), Kids movies (Mulan, Harry Potter), and porn (Fashionistas among others).

c) I used to love music. Now I love it when I'm in it but I don't have a favorite - I essentially still listen to what I listened to growing up thru college. I like being surrounded by music and really paying attention to it, but I don't like it in the background as much. I like the symphony but not the opera.

d) Food. The way I was brought up, we talked about lunch over breakfast and dinner over lunch. In other words, I revolve around food b/c I love it. I love waspy comfort food that isn't good for me. I also really love sushi in a way that makes me think I shouldn't eat it in public; it must be illegal.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
a) my cats, b) people to love who love me and understand my love of and need for alone time, c) bad movies, d) play, e) newness, f) laughter.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
group dynamics, what I'm doing with myself, sex and play, having fun, the future, the now, drawing connections between random things that don't seem to fit...
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
at home watching some terribly bad movie on SciFi, Hallmark, Spike, or Lifetime. 'though it's not friday, I'm starting early by watching Magma:Volcanic Disaster right now. Hmm, perhaps that's something I should reply for the next question.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Sometimes I think *not* having sex is way sexier than having sex.
You should message me if
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you're interested.