Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am polyamorous. A nice easy definition of polyamory is informed,
consensual nonmonogamy. I currently only have one partner, but I am
looking for additional partners, and potentially a primary.
People are the most valuable commodity on the planet. They are also
the most difficult to negotiate with. I will give you my time. But
if you don't respond, I'll leave you be.
Love, love, love music. And I hope someday to at least have a
friend who connects to music in a similar fashion to what I do,
because I would love to share it. Which leads to my next
I love to share. More specifically, my time and my life. I am
always looking for people to connect to and share some of ourselves
with each other.
But my sharing is passive. I am above all, independent. What I most
want from you is you to be nearby and share in my moments, as I
share in yours.
I do spend a good deal of time playing video games. I enjoy solving
the problems they often present. I also enjoy the imagination
required to think of things abstractly, like another characters
story. Which is why I also enjoy D&D a lot. Seeing the worlds
other people imagine is also a perk. Lastly, video games often
provide me a social outlet. Many of my friends play the same games
I do, so I can play with them. It also means that we can share our
experiences when we hang out.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Attempting to break into my career. It's been a lot harder then I
ever thought. Working in the mean time as an ambulance dispatcher
while I try and save up to go back for my Masters. I'm also trying
to find more people to connect with. I treasure the relationships
that I have, both friendly and romantic, and I'd like more.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
understanding people and emotions, video games, being
accommodating, loving unconditionally, math & science, adapting
to situations, being objective, being incredibly succinct, solving
problems, talking about illogical things in a logical manner
The first things people usually notice about me
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I look younger than I am, I'm sure of myself, I don't care what
other people think of me, I'm short, I have long hair, I am
perfectly happy being by myself
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books - Ender's Game, Children of Dune, Lord of the Rings, Treason,
New Jedi Order
Movies - Brick, Gladiator, Across the Universe, Life as a House,
Donnie Darco, Braveheart, LotR, Star Wars, Star Trek, Marvel
Music - 311, Kaskade, Deadmau5, Orbital, The Cinematic Orchestra,
Coldplay, Markus Schulz, Nobuo Uematsu, Nine Inch Nails, The
Jezabels, The Dear Hunter
Food - Pho, Sushi, steak and potatoes, Thai
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Music - it's my lifeblood and my most reliable source of mood
Sense of touch - the sensation of touch is incredible, I'd give up
my eyes first
Love - Loving others and being loved is the most rewarding thing
Dancing - Or perhaps more appropriately, the ability to let
Imagination - The ability to create something is amazing
Freedom - It's important to feel free
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
puzzles. I rather enjoy solving complicated systems.
metaphysics. A different sort of puzzle.
music. And the gateway to imagination it can be.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Working. I work graveyard. I do have Saturdays and Sundays off.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm really an open book, if you wanna know something about me just
ask and I'll tell you.
But I am a huge nerd. ComicCon and all that. D&D. I've read 80
something Star Wars books. I lost my virginity when I was 20. I am
too reactionary for my own good, makes using a site like this where
most of the impetus is on the male somewhat difficult. I also am
incredibly unagressive. Mostly because I don't like pressuring
women into situations they don't want. Once an understanding is
established, that passiveness goes away, but that typically takes
Also... my kryptonite is natural red hair, emerald green eyes
(especially those two together), and persian women.
You should message me if
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You're interested. Any interest really. I'm really looking out for
people I can connect with on a really close and deep level. Not
necessarily sexual, but certainly open for that. Otherwise, if you
just want to have an intelligent conversation with somebody
random/new, I can also afford you that.
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