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42 Oakland, CA Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 30-45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
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6' 4" (1.93m)
Body Type
Average build
Agnosticism and laughing about it
Post grad
Doesn’t have kids but might want them
Has cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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I would be overjoyed to meet a strong-minded, independent woman, who likes to travel, who likes to think, who likes to play, and who likes to marvel at the wonder of the world. I would be overwhelmed to meet a woman who had a specific passion and mission in this life, and that if this woman shared that passion with me, I would become a greater person. I feel like I could provide in like kind with my own passions and interests. I get excited thinking about these prospects and then sad when I realize that not everyone is afforded love in this life, real love.
What I’m doing with my life
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teaching, playing music, playing chess, playing house, refining instructional strategies.
I’m really good at
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listening, authentic communication (being real, as they say), learning musical instruments, dry wit, introversion.
The first things people usually notice about me
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that i'm tall
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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paul auster, david foster wallace, the silence of others, old school, pedro almodovar, the magnetic fields, neutral milk hotel, nick drake, 60s dub, the banjo, earnestness, paul simon, and this video:
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
for real: MacBook Pro, coffee, my colleagues, sleep, humor, a mission, concern for the spatial arrangement of things.

for fun: argyle, sensitive sweaters.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
how i wish teaching could be treated as a profession in the US and what that would mean.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
asleep, out, in.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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oh, yunno ... stuff.
You should message me if
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you feel like you know me a little