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41 M Oakland, CA

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6′ 3″ (1.91m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Pisces, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Has cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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I am at once musical, gregarious, thoughtful, and sensitive. I teach high school math, and have for nine years. I love the classroom, but I am leaving the classroom because I am burned out. I have given all I can for the moment, and need some time away. So, I am going to coach math teachers in Oakland Unified next year. I am super excited to get paid to think a little more. As a teacher you are not paid to think so much as to react. One ends up thinking on their own dime. So, I'm pleased. And yet, I'm nervous about missing the kids. I don't know if some sort of withdrawl is in my future. Probably. I'm sure I get so much more out of my interactions with the students than I am even aware of. I am also a musician. I played drums in a band and have at one point of other played all of the following: guitar, bass, piano, synthesizer, sitar, oud, toy piano. I bought a tiny house and am putting money into fixing it up. It's a little craftsman in North Oakland. I used to live in North Oakland years ago, and am thrilled to be back. My landscaper says I need to walk around the neighborhood with a camera and take pictures of inspirational landscaping to give her an idea of what I want. Wanna go for a walk? It might be fun.

I would be overjoyed to meet a strong-minded, independent woman, who likes to travel, who likes to think, who likes to play, and who likes to marvel at the wonder of the world. I would be overwhelmed to meet a woman who had a specific passion and mission in this life, and that if this woman shared that passion with me, I would become a greater person. I feel like I could provide in like kind with my own passions and interests. I get excited thinking about these prospects and then sad when I realize that not everyone is afforded love in this life, real love.
What I’m doing with my life
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teaching, playing music
I’m really good at
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breaking it down
The first things people usually notice about me
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that i'm tall
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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paul auster, david foster wallace, the silence of others, old school, pedro almodovar, the magnetic fields, neutral milk hotel, nick drake, 60s dub, the banjo, earnestness, paul simon, and this video:
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
for real: MacBook Pro, coffee, my colleagues, sleep, humor, a mission, concern for the spatial arrangement of things.

for fun: argyle, sensitive sweaters.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
how i wish teaching could be treated as a profession in the US and what that would mean.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
asleep, out, in.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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oh, yunno ... stuff.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 30–45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
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you feel like you know me a little