Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books - Depends on the weather. Russian novels in the fall, Russian
poetry in the spring... that sort of thing.
Movies - Ones with a little age on them.
Shows - Seinfeld, the original and best. But Joe Millionaire had me
going for a while too.
Food - I'm somewhat picky, and tend to be partial to my chemistry
experiments (things like ghetto-steamed plantains,
zaatar-instead-of-cilantro guacamole and
slightly-slower-than-a-food-truck falafel), when they turn out
well. While I'm a bit prone to succumbing to the latest thing I
read about food, I generally try to do my homework as to why this
or that food is the way it is.
Music - Op. 111... or Op. 106. Those are probably my favorites, but
there are also Opp. 2, 7, 10, 13, 14, 22, 26, 27, 31, 49, 53, 54,
57, 78, 79, 81, 90, 101, 109, 110. I like to throw 120 in there
too, but that one is an entirely separate conversation... And if
you're not up for figuring out what the numbers mean, just look up
Marie-Claire Alain on YouTube. Can your grandmother do that???