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naff_kiddo

39 M Wilmington, DE

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 28–42
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 6:15pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Often
Drugs
Religion
Sign
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Banking / Finance
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Pets
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
*Recent NYC transplant; have that 'new in town' sheen. I know I don't know you, or these places you're talking about, but you all seem really nice.
*My favorite playlist is my Sunday playlist. My late night/after-party mix is a close second.
*I like thinly populated beaches for good thinking time. But a big porch and a dog will do just fine.
*often thought of as 'good people'.
*mildly handsome in the right light.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Shining a small flashlight into financial underworlds, thinking about nice vacations, cross-procrastinating. Trying to spend more lovely evenings in beer soaked music halls, hidden corners, arcades, libraries, theaters, and organ concerts.

I have been a journalist and radio producer in the past, and gradually aspire to return to these fields. The economics of this is tricky.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Joke hang time.
Unpacking an idea or position.
Setting up a nice afternoon.
Nerd hot talk.
Enjoying the quiet.
Faffing about.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
...maybe you can tell me what that more of/less of list on the right says. I just saw one where it said that all the other people I might like were all "more thrifty." The ones who are "less loving" seem to have it bad; possessing so little love, that even an algorithm needs to call them out. I hope it doesn't say that.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I'll add a little bit at a time:

Music: Sun Kil Moon/Red House Painters/Kozelek, Fever Ray/The Knife, Low, Blonde Redhead, Portishead, Bach, Faure, Mahler, Dylan, Cohen, Beach House, Stereolab, Ladytron, Austra, Lionel Ritchie, Gillian Welch, Julee Cruise, Roxy Music, David Bowie, Animotion, Cocteau Twins, My Bloody Valentine, Club 8, Glass Candy, Frankie Rose, Lianne La Havas, Joan as Police Woman, quiet things, loud-ish things, things that meander, things that move.

Movies: Last Temptation of Christ, Dr. Strangelove, The Godfather(s), American Splender, Glengarry Glen Ross, Do the Right Thing, Wes Anderson, black comedies, Nordic nightmares, movies with outer space in them, Flashdance, Donnie Darko, films shot in New Zealand, Pina (3D!),Wings of Desire, and 2 out of 3 eighties movies.

Books: A bunch of non-fiction + Cormack McCarthy, Annie Dillard, Steinbeck, Edward Abbey, Vonnegut, Sedaris, Hemingway, the sad and thoughtful Russians, Tom Wolfe + some more.

TV: The Wire, Downton Abbey, Son's of Anarchy, Breaking Bad, BSG, The West Wing, the PBS Newshour, reality shows about remote things, Firefly, Game of Thrones, CBS Sunday Morning + some more
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
the daily soundtrack
the national public radio
Nice walks (esp in woodsy situations)
homemade fruit soda
The whiskey family, and other things to put in a tumbler
The ocean (i do, but grudgingly)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Sounds, tones, astrophysics, and the state of American politics.
You should message me if
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*You are the kind sort, and have a wit as dry as the driest orange soda.
*you want to use me for my free admittance to some nice museums.
*you want to read books in the same room.
*dj nights at the Museum of Natural History strike your fancy.
*none of these things matters really, just liking each other and being a good sport is definitely my style.