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47 M Fort Mill, SC

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Hispanic / Latin, White
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Masters program
Banking / Finance
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Relationship Type
English, Arabic, Farsi, Spanish, Portuguese

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My self-summary
First I think it's best if I explain my living situation, I have a son the stays with me on accosaion but not often. Next and most important is that I ask that you do not judge me by my photos. The shell isn't always what you think the personality should be. Now a little about me, this is an interesting question. I think this is what they call the start of a midlife crisis. A hard working individual who would like to stop and smell more roses in life, with a special person who can share time with me in both indoors and outdoors, the arts, music and genuine laughter.

Well I never thought I would even need a dating website again, but life is short and I am ready to move on and start something new with someone and hopefully this time someone that doesn't take the words I Love You for granted. I'm an independent guy with zero drama in my life. I prefer a partner who is well put together and self assured. I avoid all debts, financial as well as karmic. Intelligence is I as is a good sense of humor - Integrity is essential. In any event, I'm looking for a passionate, playful woman, of any race, who has a good sense of humor, who is grounded, and whom has some interest in part to be my friend, lover and, perhaps, soul mate.
What I’m doing with my life
Currently I work for a large broker dealer firm here in Charlotte, North Carolina. Its a 9/5 so I love the hours. For recreation I enjoy cycling on the busy streets of Charlotte, and although I am no Lance Armstrong I have been increasing my distance ever so slowly and without any performance enhancement drugs. So, yes if you have a road bike and care to join me, I would love to cycle with you. We can discover South Charlotte by way of peddling.
Just last month a friend of mine got me into camping and I actually truly enjoyed it, the art of creating a fire, build a tent, and living off of the land to a small extent fascinated me. My next adventure would be Bonnaroo, and even ASC Greenway in Fort Mill for a quick overnight sleep over.

During my down time I am looking for my partner in life. Yes this is OkCupid but you never know, sparks can fly just about anywhere these days.
I’m really good at
interesting question, I will only give everyone my non work related answers, actually I can't because they both tie into who I am as a person.

At work I am the Communications Chair and my goal in this position is to bring people hope through hosting volunteering events, and yes I do a lot of volunteering myself. I am an excellent listener and I also speak my mind in return.

I am also good at Honesty, friendship, and creating long lasting bonds with people.

I guess we should also add cooking, photography, and taking road trips anywhere.

Last: Words with Friends, and my user name is:
So just start a game with me anytime.
The first things people usually notice about me
That I love to smile, help others around me, and people say goodness you are actually listening to me.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Food I relate to places I eat at:
Bonterra Restaurant & Wine Room
Café Monte French Bakery and Bistro
The Great Wall Of China South
Aquavina Seafood and Steakhouse
Enso sushi bar
Cafe Monte
OSSO Charlotte for Italian
Dean and Deluca has an excellent festival of cooked food.
For Movies:
Somewhere in time - Grand Hotel (Mackinac Island)
Where the River Runs Black - Brasil

Homeland , yes the hero dies at the end.
Game of Thrones | A Dance with Dragons
So long Fringe
True Blood, however season final looks like a Walking Dead plagiarism
boardwalk empire, what the final
The new Fargo series
Real Time with Bill Maher
Nurse Jackie
The Tudors and Borgias

Joan Jett "I hate myself for loving you"
Anything Peter Gabriel
John Denver
The Poilce when they sing
"Young teacher, the subject
Of schoolgirl fantasy
She wants him so badly
Knows what she wants to be
Inside her there's longing
This girl's an open page
Book marking - she's so close now
This girl is half his age"....

Ok, let's also include 80's music to the mix.

Anything Augusten Burroughs
Life of Pi
Elizabeth Gilbert, Eat, Pray, Love
Jane Austen, Pride and Prejudice
Thich Nhat Hanh, Heart of Buddha's Teaching
William Shakespeare, As You Like It
M.T. The Adventures of Huckleberry Finn
The six things I could never do without
Love, water, vino, olives from around the world, pirate's booty & soon you can be on this list if you just take a leap of faith and write me.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Because you are here like myself, this means you are ready to start a new relationship and to be frank this is what I am looking for as well. So if you are tired of coming back to square one after numerous dates, perhaps this time go out with someone that truly shares the same interest as yourself.

I am however open to fall in love again and settle down with someone for something very long term. We are not getting any younger so let's enjoy each other and perhaps even age together gracefully.
On a typical Friday night I am
Unwinding from long week at work. Trying to make plans for the weekend and perhaps even making room to make plans with you.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I sing out loud and dance in private.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 41–61
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating
You should message me if
Most important is that you are not pretentious, you are still not going out to bars, and are done with having to be the town socialight.

You want to put me in front of anything else in your life, yes me! it's not a jealous thing, it's a selfish part of me that would also put you in front of my friends and past life. With me, my partners needs always comes first as I would expect you to offer me the same in return.

However you still understand we are both old enough to have had made mistakes in our past but are currently only looking towards what our future together could look like. So if you have nothing to say or want me to make the first step simply click on all of the empty 5 stars next to my profile and add me to your favorites.

Please don't message me if you secretly have an STD and aren't currently having an outbreak and want to keep living a normal life. Unforgivably I can't say yes to a relationship with you. I do wish you the best in your searches.

I want to end my profile by saying that if you see this personal ad today and tomorrow it is completely gone, that would be because I disabled it and have found someone worth putting my time into. So truth be said I want everyone here to have the luxury of deleting their account because they have found the beginning of something special that is bigger than logging on here everyday to just satisfy your need for some small piece of attention from a man or even a woman.

Pura Vida!