I didn't remove the face shots because I'm hideous, but for anonymity.
I am happy, funny, quite bright and sociable. I generally like people and they generally like me. I have a plethora of skills and interests with a strong preference towards useful things. I'm well employed and self reliant. My teenage kid lives with me, and ours is an enviable relationship. My kid is not involved with my dating life, an introduction would only happen if we decided we were "serious". I am strong and pretty tough.
Now to the more interesting stuff and reason for anonymity. I've recently figured that I'm submissive (alpha submissive actually) and not a 50 shades convert, but a great self discovery of my true nature. This does not mean I have mental issues and am reliving abuse. Nor does it mean I am weak or mild. It means I've figured out what works for me.
In defense of Dominant, submissive (D/s) relations; if you have work to do, and 2 people to do it, do you make them co-captains and make sure everything is as equal as possible, or are duties divided, with one taking the more dominant role. The later I find is much more effective. In a great D/s relation, this exchange of power can be extremely enjoyable.
. I would not submit to just anyone, An experienced, strong (mentally and physically) confidant Dom who wants to put in the necessary effort and is more into pleasure then pain is what I seek