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naniano

39 / F / Straight / Single

Canberra, Australia

Her Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 12:27am
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 4″ (1.63m).
Body Type
Average
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Capricorn and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Income
Rather not say
Offspring
Pets
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
I don't pretend to be someone I'm not, because I'm good at being me. I might not be proud of some of the things I've done in the past, but I'm proud of who I am today. I may not be perfect, but I don't need to be. Take me as I am or watch me as I walk away!

I am looking for someone who accidentally comes to my life and stays on purpose not the other way around.

I don't believe you if you say "I am a man who’s confident, successful, athletic, and dominant".Then most likely you are not telling the truth, and all I would think is you are trying to protect yourself. I’m not saying that’s not without cause. Women can be terrifying. they shouldn’t be, but they certainly can be. Telling us the truth can sometimes be a crap shoot, but believe me, the possibility of getting drawn in your own lie is so high.
I've learnt in life so far:
Men and women only really "communicate" in the movies. Especially in terrible Meg Ryan chick flicks, where all the men are sensitive and all the women have pouty lips. In Hollywood's fantasylands men and women sit down, stare into each others eyes and tell it like it is.

In reality, both genders generally just lie to one another. But in online world they not only lie about what they do or the existing issue, they also lie about their whole identity, their likes and dislikes. All the guys here are smart, like people on facebook where everyone is having so much fun!
Anyway, I guess I have to say something about myself here:
I like dancing and I like watching good movies. I hate spending my Friday nights and Saturday nights sitting at home and doing nothing and I almost have many things lined up for the next few weeks.
I wish I could spend more time in sport, but all I can do is occasionally ride my bike or walk during my lunch time and I do Salsa dancing once a week. I love going to the beach in summer, but just sitting there doesn't count, does it?
I love travelling. I don't want to change anyone, I don't want to lead and I don't want to follow, I just want to find someone to walk with me.
I have big dreams about helping women in non-developed countries.
I have heaps of friends and I love all of them. And, I have lots of stories, true stories to tell.
What I’m doing with my life
Well, I work full time and I have couple of extra side businesses as well. I read a lot and watch lots of movies and I always have crazy business ideas.
I’m really good at
Anything I want to be good at! one of them is making an absolute fool of myself, but I'm O.K with that now.I just learnt when you fully trust a person without any doubt you get one of the two results: a person for life or a lesson for life. I've got so many lessons for life so far....
The first things people usually notice about me
Well, who knows what would be the focal point for gentelmen, but if you look without any other purpose, "Smile", it has nothing to do with my feelings though!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
There are lots and lots and lots to say, maybe the favorite ones are: The unbearable lightness of being, The girl with the dragon tattoo, Persepolis,The Joke, The little Prince,
Movies: Beautiful Mind, Underground, Match point, Ted, Eyes wide shot, Bitter moon, Big blue, Midnight in Paris, .....
The six things I could never do without
Internet/or something to read, travelling, wine, dancing, family,friends( not in this order)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Where should I travel next or how many times I should repeat a mistake to make sure I 've learnt the lesson.
On a typical Friday night I am
Spending time with friends and drinking wine, working(yes I can be silly).
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I need to stop thinking about others more than myself. I also sometimes trust males and believe them.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 35–45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, activity partners, long-distance penpals
You should message me if
If you believe in the following equation:
lying = bad…even if the consequences of telling the truth seem fatal.
and/ or
If you know a friend, a woman, and a lover can all be rolled up in one wonderful package. The order is important, so it can't start from a lover!