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39 Oakland, CA Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 35-46
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 5:41am
Relationship Type
5' 4" (1.63m)
Body Type
Average build
Doesn’t have kids
Has cats
English, Spanish (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Before you spend too much time reading my profile let me start off with this. I prefer a man 5' 10" and taller. Just thought i'd put it out there so as i'm not wasting anyone's time, i'm sorry guys.

From a baby to now I've lived and traveled throughout the world resulting in homeschooling, adventure, resilience, and building my life as I wish.
I left my personal chef career of 14 years for a new job with an amazing food start-up company as their head photographer/director. I'm self made and have worked hard to get to where I am and for that I appreciate what I have that much more.
I'd like to meet a man with an edge yet who has his life together, is mature yet playful/spontaneous, knows what he wants in life/relationships, is honest, loyal, can make me laugh, is a good communicator, and is free of drama and games. Life is too short to waste our time on games, lets spend it focusing on enriching all aspects of our lives.

I'm a bit of an introvert, ISFP (myers briggs) for those of you who care to know. Basically not into the club scene/raging parties anymore. However this doesn't mean i can't socialize, I just prefer more intimate settings, with the occasional big night out.

These are just a few things that make me tick.
I love, food, travel, photography, community, laughter, creative collaboration, the flavor of water when parched, the sound of children giggling uncontrollably, a child's hug, sleeping under the stars, the milky way, light and shadows (i am a photographer), swimming naked at night, sleeping naked, chivalry, pranking, water fights, the smell of camp fires, the scent of wet earth, romance, sea glass hunting on the beach, artichokes, oysters, ramen, crab season, my cat's meow, the sun, being outside at all hours on hot humid nights, cuba, salsa dancing, old weathered hands that have a story, hearts of palm, nerds (candy), sushi, a first kiss, sex, my friends, spooning, world issues, sound of rain at night, playing in the rain, cooking for loved ones, hearing people's stories, road trips, big and little adventures, camping, making others laugh, laughing at myself, snuggles, DIY projects (concrete tabletops/tables/bedframe/refinishing), working with my hands, etc..
If you share any love for the above mentioned then lets see if chemistry does the rest.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Following my dreams and continuing to expand on them and making them a reality.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
cooking, photography, dancing, creating things with my hands, being a good friend, loving, being resourceful, staying open minded, being spunky, staying grounded in the heat of the moment, listening, being honest.....
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I can be shy, but if you approach me or smile at me I am quick to smile in turn.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What inspires me for my art.
How to be the best example as a leader.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Who is to say what "typical" is? It's always different.
I like to be spontaneous.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm an open book, but I'll wait to meet you before I give it all away:)
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You know what you want.
You're emotionally stable/available.
You're not a flake.
You're a good communicator, good sense of humor/wit, spontaneous, kind, affectionate, adventurous, passionate, honest, etc..