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38 F Oakland, CA

I’m looking for

  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 35–46
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
5′ 5″ (1.65m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Capricorn, but it doesn’t matter
Art / Music / Writing
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and has cats
English, Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Growing up I've traveled extensively around the world and believe the world is my oyster. . Yes I know the above sounds cliche, but I actually live it!
I was born to hippy parents on a commune in Tenn. where my parents had taken a vow of poverty. When I was two months old my family moved to Guatemala to help in the relief efforts after an earthquake killed over 30,000 people and orphaned over 100,000 children. We lived there for 4 years after which we moved to California where we settled for about 6 years. We continued to travel about the country, actually 36 states (8 months), branching out to countries like Thailand (6 months) and Mexico (2 months) in search of the perfect haven. My parents never found their ideal place, but settled on Gainesville, Florida where I was home schooled along with my older sister till I graduated. I left home at 19 to live and work in a community for mentally handicapped people in upstate New York for a year. I then moved to Paris, France as an Au Pair for another year. Thereafter I moved to The Bay Area and pursued a career as a personal chef for over a decade after which I went to school to study photography. Having traveled so much growing up I have always appreciated other cultures through traveling, food, music, and photography. My love for food is great, though my passion for photography is even greater. I've been fortunate enough to have been able to combine my two greatest passions in life and made a career out of it as a food photographer.

These are just a few things that make me tick.
I love, food, travel, photography, community, laughter, the flavor of water when parched, the sound of children giggling uncontrollably, a child's hug, sleeping under the stars, the milky way, swimming naked at night, sleeping naked, chivalry, pranking, water fights, the smell of camp fires, the scent of wet earth, romance, sea glass hunting on the beach, artichokes, oysters, crab season, my cat's meow, the sun, being outside at all hours on hot humid nights, cuba, salsa dancing, old weathered hands that have a story, hearts of palm, nerds (candy), sushi, a first kiss, sex, my friends, spooning, world issues, sound of rain at night, playing in the rain, cooking for loved ones, hearing people's stories, road trips, big and little adventures, camping, making others laugh, laughing at myself, snuggles, etc..

If you share any love for the above mentioned then lets see if chemistry does the rest

Sorry fellas, but I'm looking to meet someone who is 5'10" or taller.
Also, if you're a Burner, we're definitely not the right fit.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Following my dreams and continuing to expand on them and making them a reality.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
cooking, photography, dancing, creating things with my hands, being a good friend, loving, being resourceful, staying open minded, being spunky, staying grounded in the heat of the moment, listening, being honest.....
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I can be shy, but if you approach me or smile at me I am quick to smile in turn.
I'm an ISFP type for those who care to know.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What inspires me for my art.
How to be the best example as a leader.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Who is to say what "typical" is? It's always different.
I like to be spontaneous.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm an open book, but I'll wait to meet you before I give it all away:)
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You know what you want.
You're emotionally stable/available.
You're not a flake.
You're a good communicator, good sense of humor/wit, spontaneous, kind, affectionate, adventurous, passionate, honest, etc..