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  • Ages 25-38
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Oct 19, 2014
5' 11" (1.80m)
Body Type
Agnosticism and it’s important
Doesn’t have kids
My self-summary
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I'm... bad at talking about myself. Not so much because I'm shy, just far too "English" to comment on myself. Oh, alright then, because you asked...

I'm a bit of a goth, with some slightly geeky tendancies - though mostly limited to LARP these days. I love music - listening to bands, and going out clubbing and dancing. I play instruments(Guitar, Doumbek, other things I pick up) but more for fun than for being in any sort of band, though I used to DJ a bit. I think more stuff in life is amazing than people realise.

Too my endless shame, I'm actually quite reasonable and responsible these days.
What I’m doing with my life
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These days, I'm a useful, productive member of society - if the railway breaks, it may possibly be my fault.

I've given up on being lazy, and have started doing bouldering which I'm getting reasonably good at. So hanging off walls, yeah!

I am currently theoretically trying to learn blues guitar.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My hair I guess - I get a fair amount of compliments for it.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books - Probably my favourite book is 'Nights at the Circus' by Angela Carter.
But also.... 'Vellum' and 'Ink' by Hal Duncan; 'American Gods' by Neil Gaimen; 'East of Eden' by John Steinbeck; Cabal' by Clive Barker; 'Dangerous Liasons' by Choderlos de Laclos; 'The Dumas Club' by Arturo Perez Reverte; 'Dreams in the Witch House' by H P Lovecraft; anything by Borges. I like loads of books - and have probably missed some I think are great.

Movies - Heathers, Pump up the Volume, Empire Records, Confessions of a Trickbaby, Fight Club, The Doom Generation, Nowhere, Films with Cheerleaders in, Loads of arty/foreign stuff.

Music - theStart, Smashing Pumpkins, Cruxshadows, Apoptygma Beserk, Beborn Beton, Dresden Dolls/Amanda Palmer, New Model Army, Seabound, Jack off Jill, The Gathering, The Cure, David Bowie, Portishead, The Pixies

Pretty varied, I guess. When I go out, I like to dance to Rock, EBM, Darkwave, Futurepop. Industrial, Trance, Goth, Indy, Metal, Folk. I can probably be caught dancing to all sorts of dreadful stuff, because I love to dance.

Food - I love going out to eat - Sushi, Dim Sum, Italian, Tapas. I'm not exactly a foody, but do appreciate good food.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Paper and Pen - without being able to record / make mad plans and write them down, I'd probably go crazy

People! I love being around people.

Music - because life should always be accompanied by a soundtrack.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Constants and Variables.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Probably out with friends - its a friday night after all.
You should message me if
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You want to boost my already vastly over-inflated ego. :-P Or you're fun / interesting - meeting new people is awesome.