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40 M Ames, IA

My Details

Last Online
Mar 15, 2013
6′ 4″ (1.93m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Other, but not too serious about it
Aquarius, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Art / Music / Writing
Less than $20,000
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has kids, and might want more
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
The more time goes on, the more I realize I am truly out of sync with the whole monogamy/traditional marriage system. I think every relationship is precious - even if it's just meeting a person's gaze for an instant, or passing on the sidewalk, or sitting and talking for awhile at the park while our kids are playing on the playground.

Simple things like having a child sit on your lap, playing together, or just watching a movie are precious moments when we touch each other's soul. These events are as deep and meaningful as we are sensitive and open to allowing the deep spiritual connection they provide.

I think the degree of intimacy available in any encounter of any kind with anyone, is limited only by us; our preconceptions of what is 'normal' or 'allowed', or what we are comfortable with. The depth of passion and enjoyment of all kinds on all levels is unlimited at all times, between all of us. Truly the only limitations to our enjoyment of each other are those we create out of our preconceptions.

Thus I think we have only scratched the surface, in is day and age, of the myriad intimate and deeply meaningful, infinitely enjoyable relationships that are possible, with all those around us, in all walks of life. I am married, we are open to and have 'outside' relationships, but we have a stable household, two kids, and are really letting our lives together grow naturally into whatever they are meant to be.

I think each relationship has a natural envelope over time, determined by our attraction to one another, and the degree to which we can, or want to, let go and allow the relationship to happen. I think relationships naturally evolve over time, grow as they will, and the more we let go and allow this to happen, the happier our experience all around.

Some relationships last only a few seconds; some weeks or months, a few years, decades, or even a lifetime - but we are free to have many, many of these all the time, all overlapping, all at once - if we so wish. There are no real limitations; only limitless possibilities to be explored.

I am deeply committed to exploring the depths and richness of each new relationship, of any kind, with all who wish it, and always looking. I feel people in general have so much we can offer one another by just getting together, losing all inhibitions, and simply enjoying the music of what happens. :)
What I’m doing with my life
As a stay-at-home dad, I am availing myself of the opportunity to explore the Law of Attraction by applying it to daily life. I constantly seek to follow the better-feeling thought, to focus my attention on the things I find most pleasing in the world around me, and my highest aspirations - being surrounded by all kinds of wonderful, meaningful, fulfilling intimate relationships, greatly enjoying passionate encounters with those around me on a daily basis.

So, instead of thinking in terms of practical careers, I am attempting to focus on what I would *want* to be doing as a profession - what I would find the most fulfilling and enjoyable. Currently, that is being a musician.

I also am an avid follower of channeling/New Age philosophy, psychic stuff, etc. I have a YouTube channel devoted to my discussion of all such things.

I have been composing music in various forms since about 1982 - when I was 8. I finally came out with my first CD back in 2007. I am currently working on several others.

If you want to get to know me better, I can send you links to all the stuff above, plus of course there is lots more... :)
I’m really good at
Writing and recording music, playing guitar, getting into trouble because I'm WAY too open-minded for my own good, setting up my home theater, using computers, and working on them, writing code, being creative, and stuff.
The first things people usually notice about me
I'm so tall I stoop a little bit (probably from hitting my head on too many low doorways lol). Sound a bit like kermit the frog on occasion, am generally happy, a deep thinker but don't get too worked up about things.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Law of Attraction stuff by Abraham/Esther Hicks, Dune books and movie/miniseries, Star Trek, Star Wars, Lord of the Rings (books and movie), Harry Potter (ditto), Narnia (ditto), Classical music, Metal, Electronic, New Age, Pop
The six things I could never do without
My Espresso Machine
Connection with my Higher Self
The neverending expansion of consciousness
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How the Law of Attraction works in everyday life, and how to apply it. Like how to keep thinking about things I like, circumstances I would enjoy and do enjoy, stay focused on the positive and allow the resulting flood of positive events to come into my experience, that sort of thing.
On a typical Friday night I am
Listening to music and daydreaming after the kids go to bed, then spending quality family time watching movies/shows in our home theater when it gets late.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I love giving a woman pleasure with my tongue until she is satisfied - then gently sliding myself inside her, making slow, passionate love until she is satisfied again.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 18–50
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
You should message me if
you want to come over and watch movies on my projector with 9' screen.