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22 F Arlington Heights, IL

I’m looking for

  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 22–28
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
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5′ 5″ (1.66m)
Body Type
Catholicism, and somewhat serious about it
Aries, and it’s fun to think about
Working on Ph.D program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), Polish (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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Overall I'm a pretty chill girl, but at the same time I do like to go out and have fun. Have to enjoy life while I'm still young and have the time/ability to do so. However, a night in every so often is good, too. I try to be nice to everyone whenever possible and I'm a pretty caring person. Also, I'm very proud of my Polish heritage!

I'm a bit skeptical about these sites and they've never really been successful for me before, but I don't meet many interesting guys in person, so I'm just seeing what happens on here. I'm back on for the third time, having returned from a trip to Europe not too long ago, so hopefully (as they say) third time's a charm :P
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm in graduate school, studying to obtain my doctoral degree (PsyD) in clinical psychology. Still have quite a bit of school left, but I'm hoping it will pay off in the future!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Listening to people (guess that's why I'm going into psych, right? :P). I like to be there for anyone who just needs to talk about something, and I am a very good listener.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Hair or eye color? Not sure really haha. People also notice that I'm kind of shy/reserved at first.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: I'm a bit of a dork so I love the Harry Potter series, Divergent, The Luxe series, the Jacqueline "Jack" Daniels mystery series... but I can read just about anything as long as it's interesting - fiction or nonfiction. One of my favorite nonfiction books is Shadow Divers.

Movies: Harry Potter, The Lord of the Rings, The Fast and the Furious series, most rom-coms... honestly, I like pretty much anything except for musicals, horrors like Saw that are just gory, and really stupid comedies.

Shows: Castle, Once Upon a Time, House, Reign, The Originals, Chicago Fire and Chicago PD, reruns of Friends.

Music: Swedish House Mafia, Tiesto, Armin van Buuren, David Guetta... anything techno, EDM (other than dubstep - can't stand it). I also like some alternative/rock (30 Seconds to Mars, Angels and Airwaves, All-American Rejects - to name a few) and pop.

Food: Italian food is one of my favorites, although I'm not very picky when it comes to food. Also, chocolate.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Only 6?? Let's see...

1. Friends - they're the family we choose for ourselves. I really don't know what I'd do without mine.
2. My family - especially my mom, who has been there for me through the good and bad.
3. Phone
4. Music
5. Chocolate - as a self-proclaimed chocoholic, I always need my daily dose :P
6. Water
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What I'm doing with my life, where I'll be career-wise in the future. If I'm making the right career choice. Where I want to travel to next. Where I'd like to live in the future.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Either hanging out with friends somewhere, out dancing at a club, grabbing drinks at a bar, or relaxing at home
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I tend to be kind of reserved at first, and also have some trust issues when meeting new people. So I require some patience before I can really open up lol.

I have answered an embarrassing amount of match questions on this site out of sheer boredom. But hey, I guess it gives more accurate match results then?

I blush veryyy easily, sometimes when I'm not even that embarrassed. And because I have pale skin, I can't hide it haha.

I also tend to open up my eyes pretty widely at times during conversations. Yes, I'm aware of it.. yes, it's kind of strange. No, I cannot control it :P

As for more private things, ask me when I've gotten to know you a bit. I'm an open book and have nothing to hide, but some things are better left unsaid until you get to know someone better.
You should message me if
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If you want to find out more and get to know me. If we have a lot in common, have a match % over 60, and you think we'd get along well.

DO NOT message me if you are just looking for a hookup, friends with benefits, or a casual fling because in that case I am not the girl for you - just putting that out there so you don't waste your time or mine. DO NOT message me if you're here to play games or don't really know what you're looking for. Also, don't message me if you are significantly outside of my stated age range.

Bonus points if you're Polish (or European in general), if you are good at / enjoy dancing, and if you like techno/EDM! :P

Also, if you message me with just a hi, hey, hey sexy, what's up, or any kind of variation of that, I probably won't answer. Get creative and show some effort if you want to talk to me!