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natefitnyc

55 M New York, NY

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Jacked
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Judaism, but not too serious about it
Sign
Aries, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Art / Music / Writing
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Pets
Speaks
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Who are these guys i keep reading about here who only want to txt or IM? I want to MEET. Im looking for a girlfriend - not a pen pal.

Street smart and book smart. Im a pretty basic, regular guy. I dont need to travel the world or attend the latest gallery opening. Im just as happy at home watching a movie or a game. Ill pass on the latest trendy restaurant for Trader Joe's and a good craft beer. I have grown into a more spirtual and reflective person but I wont wear you out with it unless you ask.
A sensitive alpha. Yes, we exist. Ive been described as one half Stallone, one half Woody Allen. Ill make you laugh. And other things too.
Im one and a half yrs definitively separated soon to be divorced
.Im looking forward to re-discovering romance and intimacy. Im present, reliable, communicative and emotionally available. I have more to give than ever. And I expect the same in return.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Working hard to stay mindful 24/7.
Father first and foremost. Im a commercial print model/tv commercial actor and fitness trainer. Past lives include screenwriter, magazine writer, tv segment producer/host, agent, publicist, drummer. Renaissance man or jack of all trades? Beats me.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
being there for you.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Im more communicative than the average guy. Quietly confident but never cocky or conceited. Honest to a fault at times, no grey areas, no games - ever. More corny and emotional at times than Id like to be. And working to be a better man every day.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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The movie HER recently touched me in ways that remind me how wonderful and necessary romantic love truly can be. The Power of Now by Eckhart Tolle Has had a profound effect on my approach to life, as has having learned dialetical behavior therapy with my daughter (bonus points if you know what it is) . Of course The Daily Show, and The Americans is the best show on TV. Love the new Neko Case, Johnny Marr and anything that rocks hard. If music does things to your soul the way it does to mine, you get it. All Ethnic and Fairway/Trader Joe's are must-haves.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Well the first two of course are my daughters. The New York Giants, University of Michigan, EPL soccer, my IMac/IPhone/IPod (counts as one) and Diet Peach Snapple (ok that was 7 - just seeing if you're paying attention).
And the one thing I am forced to do without for now:
The moment where we both look at the same thing, then at each other and share it without a word. Boy do I miss that.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
helping my daughters have the best life they can.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I dont really have a typical Friday night.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I hold a national title (2002 Masters) in natural (drug free) bodybuilding (pix upon request lol).
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 35–50
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating
You should message me if
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If you can be both profound/philosophical and trivial/silly over the same beer. If you care more about giving than having. If you honor those you love by honoring yourself too. If you are open and ready to participate fully. If you are here. Now.
Everyone on here seems to have a couple of superficial must-haves so here are mine: Fitness needs to be a vital part of your life. If you only do it on the weekend because you have to, Im not the guy for you. Also, please have clean white teeth. How one takes care of themself says a lot.
If you checked off the box that says "conservative/right wing," we are not a match.
I want to be friends first but I also want chemistry. Im looking for an intimate monogamous relationship (and yes an intense physical one too), not a hook-up. Im not in a hurry. If you just want to date around and have fun thats cool but Im not for you. If you want something real, say hello :)

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