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30 M Concord, CA

My Details

Last Online
Today – 4:35am
6′ 3″ (1.91m)
Body Type
Strictly other
Other, and very serious about it
Taurus, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Science / Engineering
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them

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My self-summary
I'm looking for a very reflective and/or contemplative, but fun and playful girl.

I was really good at sports growing up having played basketball, football, and volleyball in high school and again volleyball at the Division 1 level in college for Loyola University Chicago.

I studied, mechanical engineering for two years at Northern Illinois University, then transferred to Loyola to play volleyball and graduated with a degree in environmental studies. I ran an exterior home painting business the summer after I graduated, and moved to Ashland, OR to pursue my interests in alternative medicine and metaphysics. I needed to heal and to reflect.

I grew up in a suburb of Chicago as a normal kid. I loved playing sports, playing with friends, and I didn't really think about anything, because I knew what I wanted to do ALL the time. There was never a moment, until the age of 13 or so that I even realized I existed so to speak. I was running on automatic. I then had some experiences that really woke me up to my existence.

I made enough money running a summer painting business after college to finally start the life I wanted to. I moved to Ashland, Oregon, for a little library there, called the Rogue Valley Metaphysical Library. I spent many years reflecting, contemplating, reading, doing yoga, meditating, enjoying nature, and finding peace in my mind, body, and spirit. Living in Ashland, next to the mountains, in the backyard of the two of the most inspiring and selfless people I know, in my travel trailer, with an open field in front of my door, with the perfectly brilliant star lit night sky, next to a small creek, at the perfect temperature in the middle of the night, while only hearing the crickets and running water in the background was the best and most incredible time of my life. It soothed my soul in a very light and enriching way. It was very healing. I lived my own personal dream. And it was perfect.

After I finally rejuvenated myself to the point where I could work again, I decided to move to the bay area to pursue my new goals.

Since then dived deeply into developing a career in the solar industry and have become very interested in creating financial freedom for myself.

I am a very open minded, soulful, reflective, and passionate guy. I know peace in mind and body. I'm really searching for a girl who considers herself "initiated" in the body, mind, and spirit. I'm looking for a girl that has been on a healing journey herself and in some respects considers herself a shaman of sorts. I'm looking for a young and sporty modern woman shaman to go on this healing journey with......
What I’m doing with my life
Following my passions. Realizing dreams. Enjoying this beautiful earth.

In no particular order and all at the same time......

Solar, healing, growing the empire, hiking, adventuring, balling, meditating, personal growth, night school, stretching/yoga, researching, reading, dreaming, etc...
I’m really good at
being resourceful, staying focused on the task at hand, never giving up, seeing the big picture, things that require hand eye coordination, paying attention to my body and emotions, going with the flow, adventuring, reading people's subtleties.
The first things people usually notice about me
my hands....

I could have been a male hand model just like my hero George Costanza
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
books - My Story, by Uri Gellar, Edgar Cayce Companion compiled by Ernest Frejer, Blueprint for Change and Quest for Truth by Darryl Anka. Rich Dad Poor Dad.

The Shawshank Redemption, Last of the Mohicans, Les Miserables, Ghandi, Schindler's List, Saving Private Ryan, Avatar, Inception. Religulous by Bill Maher was absolutely hilarious to me. Great comedy/documentary. and Ace Ventura 1 and 2. :)

shows - real time with bill maher, daily show. I don't watch that much tv actually.

bashar, Imogen Heap, Moby, Afro Celt Sound System, Coldplay, The Chemical Brothers, Daft Punk, Enya, I like some Lady Gaga songs, Muse

Healthy omnivore, although these days I lean more veggie.
The six things I could never do without
In no particular order and all at the same time....

my freedom in all forms, physical, mental, spiritual.....
My Geo Metro hatchback!
veggie burritos
quiet time
the dream
I spend a lot of time thinking about
how to create the lifestyle I truly desire
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Not really private, just maybe the most controversial.......but I believe that the universe is infinitely vast and contains beyond billions of different intelligent species.

If my mind were any more open, I think my brain would fall out.
I’m looking for
  • Straight girls only
  • Ages 26–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating
You should message me if
You feel the resonance...

and/or if you like chipotle burritos. :)