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nathanielallen

24 / M / Straight / Single

Surrey, British Columbia, Canada

His Details

Last Online
Today – 4:54pm
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 1″ (1.85m).
Body Type
A little extra
Diet
Anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Atheism and very serious about it
Sign
Taurus and it’s fun to think about
Education
Working on college/university
Job
Student
Income
Less than $20,000
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), German (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Well I don't know exactly what to say in this. I'm an sensitive guy. I thoroughly enjoy just having good company. I don't like being alone. I love to talk about a variety of things and I really just want someone that first of all is a good friend.

I'm into art, singing and song writing, politics, history and occasionial travel. I'm a first year history student and I want to become either a historian or a teacher eventually. I want to at least get a Master's degree in History and maybe a associates or Bachelors in Political Sciences. I'm a lover of the arts and anyone that is creative would be a welcome addition to my circle of friends and loved ones.

I love 20th century history and I can bore you to tears about it. I'm also into video games but I'm not a hardcore gamer. I write a lot of poetry and I have written a few songs for the guitar.

I want to find someone that shares some interests with me and will help me grow as a person. I want to love and be loved
I'm a bit odd sometimes but for the most part I'm calm and collected and I can enjoy sitting silently next to someone too. I don't always have to talk. I am mainly looking for someone to spend time with.

Sometimes I stay in situations I don't exactly enjoy because I don't want to hurt someone. I put other people's feelings over my own and I don't always express myself as a I should. That's one thing I have to improve on. I have to be more forthcoming. I am an honest guy but I don't like hurting one's feelings.

I am not a demanding man. I don't ask for much and I don't expect much either. I just want a companion and I hope that I can be of some use and be there for someone.

I plan on getting married and having kids but a pace that is acceptable to whomever I will have a relationship with. I rushed into marriage once and I was dumped while we were engaged and it broke me for a long time.
What I’m doing with my life
I'm going back to school to work on getting at least a bachelors degree in history. I started about a year ago but I sort of fell off the side of the earth and its been a difficult recovery from the intense depression I have been through. A lot of women see that a guy was depressed and is starting his life again at this age and bolt. I think that's unfortunate. I didn't choose to be depressed, I didn't choose for their to be a chemical imbalance.

However I will not let my past determine my future. I have a lot to give and a lot to live for and I am tired of waiting around for things to happen. I will make them happen and hopefully some one will join me. As you may have noticed I am a bit of an amateur writer. I can write and journal quite a lot. You'll see it on my Facebook if you were one of my friends.

Practically speaking I'll be also working on a certificate to work as someone in building maintenance. At some places the starting wage is 19$ and its unionized! So by the end of this year I should have a sweet job picking up other people's crap .while you may have a nice clean job working at Starbucks talking to people and getting annoyed by customers I'll be chilling in my quiet environment and making more money per hour than you or that douche bag guy you like so much. Plus I'll be going to school soon as well. Hooray.

I'll be honest that because of my depression and what went with it that I am not working and I am on long term disability. I still have the means to support myself and I am not without money. I just can't spend a load of money on gold diggers and waste my time with women that focus solely on monetary rather than emotional support. I can still make 800 dollars part time in addition to the 900 dollars I receive from the government which put together is not half bad as long as I'm not living in a place with intense rent.

I'm on the threshold of what will determine the future of my life. I want to get started on my degrees and get moving forward. I've been stuck treading water for awhile and now I can finally swim forward towards the goal. It will be a long swim but the awards will be worth all the effort. I just want to be the best I can be.

I've been writing songs and I plan on performing and recording more of them in the very near future. I will be going to a studio soon to record a CD.
I want also to share my life with a passionate woman that knows that she wants to do with her life and has some love to give. I have a lot of affection that's built up in me that needs an outlet. I want someone I can easily see at least once per week.
I’m really good at
Guitar, poetry and 20th century history especially the second world war.
I play plenty of guitar and I love it. I have written my own songs and I play at least one open mike per month. I am looking for someone that is similar and could expose me to more artists and more songs.Someone please teach me how to read music!

I've been through a lot of crap in my life and I can relate to plenty of people. I've never had it "easy". I've always had some sort of challenge. Things are getting easier in my life now, but the last few years were a living hell.

I'm said to be good at listening and I'm good at showing appreciation and I'm great at just snuggling and being close.
The first things people usually notice about me
I like to let people rant and say what they want to. I don't always come up with something to say if its not something I'm passionate about. But it you're talking about something I have an interest in we could talk for hours.

People notice that I like company.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books:
The Lord of the Rings trilogy and the Hobbitt. 1984, Animal Farm, Clash of Kings, Game of Thrones.

Movies: Star Wars and the Lord of the Rings.

Food: Pizza and sushi

Music: Oh man.
Nirvana, Alice In Chains, Pearl Jam, Soundgarden, The Doors, Black Sabbath, Ozzy, Iron Maiden, Arcade Fire, White Stripes, Jimi Hendrix, the Beattles, folk and the blues, anything with good guitar in it.
The six things I could never do without
My lefty strat, my lefty SG, my dad's old strat, my acoustic, my amp, and my DS-1 pedal.

I really can't go without my guitars for a long time. I play music as a means of combating boredom and also as means of expression and it would be difficult to never have my guitars. I enjoy using my DS-1 because it adds a dimension to my playing. If I could put more than six things I would add my other 2 main pedals, my chorus and delay, and also my ipod.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
World News, politics, history, books, music.

I tend to think quite a lot about where I am, where I am going, what I am doing at the moment and what I want from life. I'm usually planning something. I also take a lot of time to think about my current relationships and what I can do to improve them or how I can be a better friend, sibling, son, etc.

I like to think about what it would be like to have a good girfriend. That's important to me. I've had a lot of relationships that either never had a chance to go anywhere or just ended too quickly. I think a lot about what it would be like to love and be loved back.
On a typical Friday night I am
Playing guitar, writing or reading or on Facebook.

I don't usually do much on a typical Friday night. I might sometimes hang out with a friend or crash at a friend's place. But most of the time I am at home, bored as hell. I'm up for pretty much anything to do with someone if it doesn't involve me ebarrasing myself.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 18–30
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, activity partners, long-distance penpals, casual sex
You should message me if
If you love music, art, and history and want someone that has interesting things to say... or someone that will be happy just to talk to you and spend time with.

If you enjoy walks and being outside and aren't overly concerned with money and materialism.

If you like talking! If you like guitars!

If you're looking for someone, of course!