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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 40-50
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Oct 10
Seeing Someone
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
6' 0" (1.83m)
Body Type
Atheism and it’s important
Doesn’t have kids and doesn’t want them
My self-summary
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A persevering 53 year old trapped in the mind of a 35 year old optimist. Lighting designer, working in architectural consulting primarily. Professionally and privately concerned about making things beautiful and finding perverse pleasure in the systematic and technical difficulty of achieving that in both arenas. Autodidact. Teacher.
What I’m doing with my life
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Still working on finding ways to make space in a hectic and chaotic but enormously stimulating work life for a more sensible and authentic personal life. Traveling incessantly and enjoying the cultural and human exposure that brings. Finding inspiration from the diversity of the creative endeavours that surround us.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Finding kindness and empathy. Appreciating complexity. Enjoying intuitive thought paths. Sleeping on aeroplanes. Being interested.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Who would know? Though it's unlikely to be an impressive suit.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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The Diamond Age. Lights Out in Wonderland. Lost in Translation. The Secretary. Dianna Kiss. Lamb. Anish Kapoor. Dan Flavin.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Others' creativity.
Lounge access.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Things as puzzles. What's behind behavior. Alternative answers. Stupid shite associated with process. What people think. The way weeks get shorter.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Trying to avoid the feeling that working tomorrow is probably the smart thing to do. Eating out, again. Quite likely sharing a few drinks with collaborators somewhere before spending more time than I like in an immigration queue.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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That I find this an odd question?
You should message me if
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You're intelligent, creative, articulate and looking for someone who will enjoy that fact. You carry your sexiness happily. You have a bit of time on your hands and recognize it as a rare and valuable commodity.