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natilywise

26 F Detroit, MI

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  • Ages 22–31
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My Details

Last Online
Today – 9:38am
Orientation
Bisexual
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 3″ (1.60m)
Body Type
Thin
Diet
Strictly vegetarian
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Religion
Atheism
Sign
Education
Working on Ph.D program
Job
Student
Income
Relationship Status
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Non-monogamous
Offspring
Pets
Has cats
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm a cheerful and often sarcastic graduate student in Detroit, and I spend a lot of time working or studying (or more accurately, lately, procrastinating). I like to loaf around, hang out with friends, play games, watch tv, and read, in my free time. I'm an atheist and a vegetarian and a feminist, all of which either color or are derived from my overall philosophy. I can be a little bit shy and awkward when I first meet people, but it passes. I'm in an awesome and polyamorous relationship with Shaquintosh.

I'm busier than I'd like to admit, so I warn you I'll be flakey... I'll just end up dropping conversations and being unavailable :-/ Sorry! I also prefer to date people I'm already friends with, so I'm not the girl you're looking for if you want a whirlwind romance. However, I still love meeting new people who think somewhat like I do.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Currently, I'm apparently getting as much school as possible; I'm working on an MD and a PhD. Because why choose, I guess.

Eventually, I plan on being a doctor who also does research. In the meantime, I think less about goals than I do about the day-to-day stuff, and I really appreciate relaxation and free time.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Coming up with things that I'm not QUITE good enough at to brag about on okcupid. Talking a little bit too much about med school or science. Multiple choice tests. Sentence fragments (apparently).
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Big hipstery glasses, I'm sure. I still notice them first when I look in the mirror. I'm real happy with how cute and functional they are, at the same time. Go glasses.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I'll read almost anything, and I like most of what I read. I like sci-fi, fantasy, general fiction, and nonfiction. My favorite books are the ones that I can't predict; I like authors that can keep a step ahead of the reader or that do things a little bit unconventionally, and I am SO frustrated with formulaic fantasy :-/ I like taking recommendations from friends and looking at lists of award-winning books and just picking one from a genre that I don't often read. You can find some real gems that way. I used to dislike short stories, but now I guess I'm into them.

I watch too much tv, and most of it isn't particularly good. My favorite show is Firefly, but that might be just because they didn't stick around long enough to get bad. I lean towards pop/electronica, and I'm mildly embarrassed about how much I like trashy pop music. As for foods... just, yes. Besides the things I don't eat because I'm a vegetarian, I rarely come across something I don't like. If it has mushrooms or garlic, I'm sold.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Books
Thrift stores
The internet
Coffee
A good sundress
My cats
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
People, whatever classes I'm currently taking, the books I'm reading, food, politics, ethics, science, medicine, whether or not I'm a total failure at any of the above, cute animals (I can't even handle them, they just get me, every time), the internet, whatever exciting things I have coming up, and crafts I'd like to do but will never actually get around to.

Also, the ways in which the internet differs from real life; like, do people really describe each other as "fit?" So many people on here are "fit" or are looking for someone who is "fit." It's weird.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Hanging out with friends or staying in with a good book, video games, or an accidental netflix marathon.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
When I see someone's profile that lists a bunch of books I like, I totally read other books they listed, using them as my personal book recommendation service. Without telling them.

Also, I'm way weirder in person.
You should message me if
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you like board games or league or biking or running, and need more people to do those with, or want to bike with me to Belle Isle for a picnic. Or, if you're a reasonable and decent human being that treats the people around you well and agrees with or is interested in anything that I've had to say, and thinks we have something in common.

Ooh, or, you should message me if you know when I can pet all of the cute animals everyone has in their pictures. Jeez. I can't handle them. I need some petting farm/exotic animal preserve/whatever it is in my life, apparently.

My social life tends to hover around about where I want the ceiling to be, so if I'm not interested in meeting you, don't be surprised. Or offended.

I don't respond to everyone that messages me, like most people on this site. Good ways to get into the no-response category are to just say "hey" or message me to tell me you think I look good. I get so many of those, even with this in my profile. Why.