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nativenyer85

29 F Queens Village, NY

I’m looking for

  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 25–35
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Sep 11
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
Black
Height
5′ 5″ (1.65m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Catholicism, but not too serious about it
Sign
Aries, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Art / Music / Writing
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Has dogs and dislikes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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I keep getting complaints that I sound too abrasive but would you rather talk to someone who sounds or behaves like they're not really interested in you or someone who's actually taken the time to somewhat read your profile and get to know you? I don't think I'm asking for too much. I've seen some people asking from the get-go that you make six figures or be openly into threesomes. Being able to carry a conversation beyond ''Hi, how are you?'' In a message doesn't sound so awful now, does it?

Finished writing my first novel after 8 years, finished my BA in English and am currently working on my second book.

I understand this is the Internet, but I hate one line messages. I see them and immediately think you either are pressed for time or didn't care enough to go beyond being informal and short. Please stop doing that guys. Seem interested! Engage me! You don't have one word conversations on dates [ I hope!] So please stop sending me these sad short emails. I only respond to them if I think you're interesting which is 20 percent of the time.

Bottom line:

Engage me, seem interested and I'll be more inclined to respond to you not to mention eventually date.

I'm generally an open minded person when it comes to trying new things like, music some different foods and different cultures. Some things about me always tend to stay the same though. For instance, when I go to vending machines I always get Starburst candies, it's pretty much been that way since High school. In someways, especially in terms of food I tend to like a lot of sweets and meat. Not really a big fan of fish though. I'm sarcastic and quirky. I listen to most music, but a lot of what I'm into is ten years old, or oldies from the 70's 60's or 80's. My parents are older, so I suppose I get it from them.
What I’m doing with my life
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Self publishing my first novel while I'm the process of working on my second. I'm having my cover art re done but am trying to have everything finished by the end of next month if not, August.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Writing and giving others advice. I've been writing since I was 10 or 12. It's something I still have a passion for and probably always will. I write short stories and poetry regularly.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Probably the way I walk. I was born prematurely and with cerebral palsy, as well as epilepsy. This is something that hasn't really stopped me from doing much. Generally, I'd like the man I'm with to be as open minded as I am. I don't and wont discriminate against people from other races, because I know what it's like to be looked at differently because you walk a certain way or may have a developmental delay. They may be different issues, but the end result is the same.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books
The Coldest Winter Ever, Snuff, Little Black Girl Lost, Addicted, The Bluest Eye, Gone With The Wind

Pizza, Caribbean Food, Italian Food

Most things onInvestigation Discovery
Sex and the City
The Haves and Have Nots
Master Class
Jeopardy
Who Wants To Be A Millionaire

Some of the bands and musicians I listen to
Childish Gambino, Lil Kim, Iggy Azalea, Elton John, Bruce Springsteen, Green Day, Creed, Stevie Wonder, Bon Jovi,
Lady Gaga, Madonna, Adele, Roland The Reject, Lupe Fiasco, Mos Def Talib Kweli, WUTANG, 2PAC, Nas, Common Sense, John Legend, Trina, Otis Redding, The Temptations, The Chilites, Teddy Pendergrass, Robin Thicke, Marsha Ambrosius, K Michelle, Kendrick Lamar, Puddle of Mud, Aerosmith, Nickleback, Maroon 5, Millie Jackson Nine Inch Nails

Movies

Gone With The Wind
Hope Floats
All the Harold and Kumar movies.
Interview With A Vampire
Vampire In Brooklyn
Rosewood
BAPS
School Daze
He Got Game
True Romance
Mermaids
Forest Gump
Stepford Wives
Rosemary's Baby
Harlem Knights
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My family because they keep me grounded and half way crazy most of the time.
A good book or my e reader.
Being able to write if not once a day at least occasionally.
Empathy for others. I love helping people and depending on the situation can be very selfless.
Good conversation. I think being able to carry a conversation with a person says a lot about you. If you can actually sit down and discuss issues whether they're important to you or not we'll probably get along.

Still need to figure out #6!
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Writing or going to live shows if I have time.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm scared of clowns. I'm admitting it now, and seldom admit it unless someone close to me asks. I don't think it has to do with actual fear, but they make me uncomfortable because I don't know what they're thinking. Are you happy to see me, or are you secretly plotting to kill me behind your smile? It sounds weird, but I went to Barnum and Bailey as a young teen and was never the same after that.
You should message me if
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You're funny, witty smart and want to get to know someone who likes to laugh but is a bit of a homebody. I'm random, but also I like making plans to go out. I find comedy in everyday things and see things differently than most people